Debbie wrote:

Vera's post on RS is essential and it can give you some great ideas on how to do this. I tend to use a mix of creative visualization and whatever RS method I feel like doing at the time (Lanie Stevens, Amargie Hillier, or even occasionally the Wendi Freisen recording). They pretty much all work, but the important thing is that you use a method you are comfortable with and just relax and be patient, knowing that it is taking effect immediately, even if you don't see the results for a while.

Patience is so important. When I first began doing RS, for the first couple of weeks I noticed absolutely nothing. But I had read that it takes time and so I persisted. But then gradually after the 2 week mark I began to notice very subtle changes in the guy I was using it on. It was like...at first I was thinking "am I imagining this or did he just look at me in a suggestive way/try to flirt wiht me?", etc. But as time passed it became more and more obvious that he was getting interested, to the point where he did actually fall in love with me.

No contact is a must, just as everybody says here.  If you start contacting her endlessly it will make you seem needy and that will put her right off.

Veroncia gives a link somewhere on this forum to an RS article that explains a lot about the process, and I like that method a lot. That was actually the article I read that first got me into RS.  It definitely Works. You spend, say, the first 20 minutes on erotically touching the target/person in your mind and turning them on. Then for the final 10 minutes you imagine yourself with them in a more tender way, such as holding hands or hugging each other, with a feeling of strong love in your hearts and lots of emotion. Dividing it up in this way gives you the love from that person and the sexual desire as well, so you get the best of both worlds.

Thank you for the post.   I'm honestly ready for this challenge.      Also I realize that no contact helps me focus better as well, like when I contact her(haven't in a few days). No matter if she replies or doesn't.  It sets me back.         I guess I just have this stupid fear that.  What if she never contacts me again(I know I have to get over this fear. And once I do.  Everything will start working the way I expect)

Dan,

It's great that you are learning so much. I think the thing that helped me the most is the phrase "assume the state of the wish fulfilled." Basically, become and think like the guy you would be when you get back together. Be that guy every day and approach anything and everything you do with that mindset. Would you be worrying about what she's doing, etc when you get back together? Not likely. You'll just love and appreciate her, but you'll also have things to focus on yourself throughout the day. Be that guy, make feeling good your number one priority and everything will fall into place.

http://www.mindcafe.org/2009/04/06/15-tips-on-how-to-seduce-others-with-the-hidden-power-of-your-mind/

This is basically RS in the format of Armigi Hillier. 

REMEMBER.. All that matters is that you set the intention that what you are doing will reach her perfectly.  The RS, the affirmations, the love you are sending her will absolutely reach her.  When you do these things you literally connect with her spirit or inner being, and you will see astonishing changes taking place thereafter. It takes time,  belief,  and an attitude of "I've totally got this, she adores me!"

Don't allow your fears to derail you. Simply meditate, exercise, read up on LOA, focus wheel, visualise.. Don't write or think too long and hard about your fears. You're literally scripting your life.

Read the book "Ask and it is Given" for a thorough understanding of LOA and how it works.
Forget distance, there are no limitations. This is a universe full of unlimited potential. Create what you want, intend for it to happen, then sit back and relax knowing it's yours because you are driving it all!

Easy Peasy 😘

Last edited by Cherished (11/06/2015 3:05 pm)

For people who believe that, it will absolutely be true!

It's LOA