jfwk wrote:

Hello everyone,

Need a little help here. I need to kick my psychic addiction for good.

Ever since my person broke up with me (been about two months now), I have been calling and visiting psychics nonstop. While I knew about LOA and been listening to Abraham for a year now, I was grieving and didn't believe that I could manifest a specific someone. Then, I found Agnes and Veronica about two weeks ago, I became a little more hopeful and less anxious. In fact, yesterday I felt so good that I didn't even listen to any LOA podcast/ video. But every now and then, this neediness comes back and want to look for external factors for validation. And that's when I really want to call psychics. I know that I really need to kick this habit for good. If any of you could say a few words for emotional support, that would be really helpful.

I assume your psychic has been positive and telling you what you want to hear?

I've only tried psychic once and what she said was "he's with someone now. You should move on".

and i never did go back to psychic again haha... Had to convince myself she doesnt know me/him. Some of the things she said were pretty off too.

And i found LoA after. So here i am.

I don't know how true this is, so please take with a grain of salt. I do know that talking with psychics messes with energy. I also know that having readings done often will trash spellwork. It comes to reason that having a psychic messing with the energy you're using to attract someone is a bad idea.

Psychics read energy. Some read current energy. Some read past and future energy. The thing about energy is that it changes. Someone can tell you that you're on the right path, but that energy can change. What you're doing with psychics is not trusting your own energy and seeking confirmation. Doubt and fear will trash your energy work.

I had maybe 10 readings (4 different psychics) at the beginning of the year. It did me no good. These were all very good readers who I trust very much. They were all wrong in predictions. Well, I can't say ALL. Two of the timelines haven't past yet. Still, knowing what I know about how my desires have changed, I can say they won't pan out.

I'll say this: You're wasting time and money and putting the wrong energy out there. To go to a psychic at a major life changing event to ask if you're on the right track is one thing. To have repeated readings to get an answer that no one can tell you with certainly is insane. I can tell you know this.

If you're looking for a distraction, instead read books in LOA, how to tap into your own psychic ability and intuition, and different ways to use your energy. Learn to trust your instinct and what you already know deep down.

Simply put: You can't get some definitive answer from anyone about anything. The future changes constantly.

jfwk wrote:

Thanks for the reply. You are absolutely right. None of the predictions about immediate future has come true so far. The legit ones could only tell the current situation but even their predictions havent been accurate.

I guess I just have to trust myself that I can do this. Yesterday was a really good day for me because I finally got to the point of letting go but that peacefulness lasted 24 hours and now I'm kinda back to looking for external validations although not as bad as it used to be. Oh well, one step at a time.

80saeaak wrote:

I don't know how true this is, so please take with a grain of salt. I do know that talking with psychics messes with energy. I also know that having readings done often will trash spellwork. It comes to reason that having a psychic messing with the energy you're using to attract someone is a bad idea.

Psychics read energy. Some read current energy. Some read past and future energy. The thing about energy is that it changes. Someone can tell you that you're on the right path, but that energy can change. What you're doing with psychics is not trusting your own energy and seeking confirmation. Doubt and fear will trash your energy work.

I had maybe 10 readings (4 different psychics) at the beginning of the year. It did me no good. These were all very good readers who I trust very much. They were all wrong in predictions. Well, I can't say ALL. Two of the timelines haven't past yet. Still, knowing what I know about how my desires have changed, I can say they won't pan out.

I'll say this: You're wasting time and money and putting the wrong energy out there. To go to a psychic at a major life changing event to ask if you're on the right track is one thing. To have repeated readings to get an answer that no one can tell you with certainly is insane. I can tell you know this.

If you're looking for a distraction, instead read books in LOA, how to tap into your own psychic ability and intuition, and different ways to use your energy. Learn to trust your instinct and what you already know deep down.

Simply put: You can't get some definitive answer from anyone about anything. The future changes constantly.

That's why they're so addictive. You can hear exactly what you want to hear. Your present energy is good. They read that. Then you start doubting. The more you doubt the worse the readings get. You NEED that validation.

Abraham Hicks talks a lot about tuning into your own energy. How? Use your feelings. If you don't feel good, you need to get to the root of it and find out why. Why DO you have doubts? Do you think this person isn't really the one? Do you think you aren't good enough? Do you think you can't get this person back? Figure it why and fix that. That's where the magic happens.

Here's what happened to me: I had a few readings. Based on those readings I amped up my RS. Then I started having some spellwork done (don't judge me. Ha!). I kept getting little signs that the manifestation was coming. I would see him in weird places, but it was always a near-hit. I was getting into my car at Kohls and he drove by the front door. If I left 30 seconds later we'd have run right into each other. Another time I grabbed bottled water from an endcap instead of walking down the aisle at the end of my shopping trip like I planned. As I was grabbing milk I saw him walk down the water aisle. I miss him again. I'd see his doppelgängers everywhere.

I laid down and meditated. I asked my soul if he was the one. Why this kept happening. Why after months I wasn't manifesting my desires. Then it hit me. These signs were telling me the timing was wrong and that I thought he was the one when he wasn't. It was so clear. That's when I totally let it go and gave up on it. I was mad that I didn't do this sooner becuse I wasted months of my time seeking something that wasn't good for me and I knew it deep down. He wasn't good for me. Had he come back, I'd have been more of a mess. I won't tell anyone they can't or shouldn't try to get someone back, but sometimes we know this is a bad match deep down and ignore it. That's why we seek validation. This is why it's important to tune into your feelings and deeper into yourself.

Trusting what you see and really knowing what you're seeing is important. A psychic can tell you things, but they don't KNOW like you do. Your Higher Self or soul can see into the future. It can communicate with another's soul or Higher Self. You don't need anyone to do that for you. A lot of the message can get jumbled in the translation. Remember this.

Look into some soul connecting meditations. I did it the other day. While I was meditating I saw clear visuals. Then I asked my soul and she said no. I'm very unsure which is right. Either way, the answer will come and worrying or stressing won't help.

Thanks for sharing this. I did went through that stage of being unable to overcome my limiting beliefs/ doubts. I kept asking myself would I even be happy with him because he is putting his career before us and rarely shows affection, which caused a lot of miscommunications between us.

But deep down I know that he's the person I want to be with. We had it so good until I started focusing on things that are lacking. So one day, I sat down in a quiet corner and asked my inner being to show me a sign if he/ she (my inner being) is on board with this idea of bring him back into my life. And that's when I found Agnes. I wasn't even looking for/ Googling anything. I was just listening to one of AH videos and saw someone mentioned her name in the comments. I normally wouldn't take these comments seriously because I think most of them are spams. Also, that weekend before I found her, something inside of me changed. Almost like a switch turned off. I suddenly remember our good times and how much he loves me. Then I became hopeful again and talking to psychics much lesser.

Also, in the last couple of days, I asked the Universe for signs (like yellow flowers or blue flower) and they did appeared. One of the things I realized was I asked for these signs and I forgot about them. So letting go really is the key.

Anyway, I'm sharing all these not to prove anything. It's just that some days, I still struggle to feel good when I start looking at what IS. I'm just trying to find a solution to overcome this. I will try soul connecting meditation.

80saeaak wrote:

jfwk wrote:

Thanks for the reply. You are absolutely right. None of the predictions about immediate future has come true so far. The legit ones could only tell the current situation but even their predictions havent been accurate.

I guess I just have to trust myself that I can do this. Yesterday was a really good day for me because I finally got to the point of letting go but that peacefulness lasted 24 hours and now I'm kinda back to looking for external validations although not as bad as it used to be. Oh well, one step at a time.

80saeaak wrote:

I don't know how true this is, so please take with a grain of salt. I do know that talking with psychics messes with energy. I also know that having readings done often will trash spellwork. It comes to reason that having a psychic messing with the energy you're using to attract someone is a bad idea.

Psychics read energy. Some read current energy. Some read past and future energy. The thing about energy is that it changes. Someone can tell you that you're on the right path, but that energy can change. What you're doing with psychics is not trusting your own energy and seeking confirmation. Doubt and fear will trash your energy work.

I had maybe 10 readings (4 different psychics) at the beginning of the year. It did me no good. These were all very good readers who I trust very much. They were all wrong in predictions. Well, I can't say ALL. Two of the timelines haven't past yet. Still, knowing what I know about how my desires have changed, I can say they won't pan out.

I'll say this: You're wasting time and money and putting the wrong energy out there. To go to a psychic at a major life changing event to ask if you're on the right track is one thing. To have repeated readings to get an answer that no one can tell you with certainly is insane. I can tell you know this.

If you're looking for a distraction, instead read books in LOA, how to tap into your own psychic ability and intuition, and different ways to use your energy. Learn to trust your instinct and what you already know deep down.

Simply put: You can't get some definitive answer from anyone about anything. The future changes constantly.

That's why they're so addictive. You can hear exactly what you want to hear. Your present energy is good. They read that. Then you start doubting. The more you doubt the worse the readings get. You NEED that validation.

Abraham Hicks talks a lot about tuning into your own energy. How? Use your feelings. If you don't feel good, you need to get to the root of it and find out why. Why DO you have doubts? Do you think this person isn't really the one? Do you think you aren't good enough? Do you think you can't get this person back? Figure it why and fix that. That's where the magic happens.

Here's what happened to me: I had a few readings. Based on those readings I amped up my RS. Then I started having some spellwork done (don't judge me. Ha!). I kept getting little signs that the manifestation was coming. I would see him in weird places, but it was always a near-hit. I was getting into my car at Kohls and he drove by the front door. If I left 30 seconds later we'd have run right into each other. Another time I grabbed bottled water from an endcap instead of walking down the aisle at the end of my shopping trip like I planned. As I was grabbing milk I saw him walk down the water aisle. I miss him again. I'd see his doppelgängers everywhere.

I laid down and meditated. I asked my soul if he was the one. Why this kept happening. Why after months I wasn't manifesting my desires. Then it hit me. These signs were telling me the timing was wrong and that I thought he was the one when he wasn't. It was so clear. That's when I totally let it go and gave up on it. I was mad that I didn't do this sooner becuse I wasted months of my time seeking something that wasn't good for me and I knew it deep down. He wasn't good for me. Had he come back, I'd have been more of a mess. I won't tell anyone they can't or shouldn't try to get someone back, but sometimes we know this is a bad match deep down and ignore it. That's why we seek validation. This is why it's important to tune into your feelings and deeper into yourself.

Trusting what you see and really knowing what you're seeing is important. A psychic can tell you things, but they don't KNOW like you do. Your Higher Self or soul can see into the future. It can communicate with another's soul or Higher Self. You don't need anyone to do that for you. A lot of the message can get jumbled in the translation. Remember this.

Look into some soul connecting meditations. I did it the other day. While I was meditating I saw clear visuals. Then I asked my soul and she said no. I'm very unsure which is right. Either way, the answer will come and worrying or stressing won't help.

Last edited by jfwk (9/06/2017 8:55 pm)