I could see why it is . I am doing so much self love now cause I just want to feel better . I want to manifest closer relationships with my friends too.

whitebutterflies11 wrote:

It's so crazy that this conversation is taking place. I was JUST thinking this before. Not that I don't feel like doing any of the techniques tonight, but I was wondering if maybe doing them is making me stay attached to the outcome.

I have to say today was a great day. I was so preoccupied and happy doing things I love (shopping, lunch with my best friend, hung out with family, got a haircut) that I didn't think about my POI. 

Is that a bad thing?? I mean, it's not that I am giving up on my desire, I just think it's making me truly focus on ME. I think that's when you manifest quickest!

What you did today is perfect it's actually detaching you from the outcome . so great job 😊. That doesn't mean you don't want your desire it means you can be happy without it. Which is what you want you want to not rely on it to be the soul of your happiness . That's my issue I'm working on that's why I'm reading so many self love things. For me it's about being my own person be happy on my own and also building belief I can have him back. I really want to believe I can I want to know it's possible no matter what.

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whitebutterflies11 wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

whitebutterflies11 wrote:

It's so crazy that this conversation is taking place. I was JUST thinking this before. Not that I don't feel like doing any of the techniques tonight, but I was wondering if maybe doing them is making me stay attached to the outcome.

I have to say today was a great day. I was so preoccupied and happy doing things I love (shopping, lunch with my best friend, hung out with family, got a haircut) that I didn't think about my POI. 

Is that a bad thing?? I mean, it's not that I am giving up on my desire, I just think it's making me truly focus on ME. I think that's when you manifest quickest!

What you did today is perfect it's actually detaching you from the outcome . so great job 😊. That doesn't mean you don't want your desire it means you can be happy without it. Which is what you want you want to not rely on it to be the soul of your happiness . That's my issue I'm working on that's why I'm reading so many self love things. For me it's about being my own person be happy on my own and also building belief I can have him back. I really want to believe I can I want to know it's possible no matter what.

Okay, so then that IS a good thing! I'm happy for that. And for you, I feel like the self love books are a great thing for you to become happier with yourself. I read A LOT in June and July. I FINALLY feel like I am getting back to being myself. So it definitely is a process.

As for the whole belief thing that you're talking about. That's exactly where I'm at now! I feel that I am normally a concrete / visual person. You know "believe it when you see it" And that totally goes against LOA. You have to believe first, THEN you see it in your physical realm. Have you read about any tips on how to boost your faith and beliefs?? 

I have been searching and asking and nothing seems to resonate with me I think it's cause I have done this the wrong way for so long lol. I'm not sure how to up my belief anymore lol

whitebutterflies11 wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

whitebutterflies11 wrote:

Okay, so then that IS a good thing! I'm happy for that. And for you, I feel like the self love books are a great thing for you to become happier with yourself. I read A LOT in June and July. I FINALLY feel like I am getting back to being myself. So it definitely is a process.

As for the whole belief thing that you're talking about. That's exactly where I'm at now! I feel that I am normally a concrete / visual person. You know "believe it when you see it" And that totally goes against LOA. You have to believe first, THEN you see it in your physical realm. Have you read about any tips on how to boost your faith and beliefs?? 

I have been searching and asking and nothing seems to resonate with me I think it's cause I have done this the wrong way for so long lol. I'm not sure how to up my belief anymore lol

That would be a good topic for us to post somewhere on the forum! Maybe somewhere on the help raise my vibe sub section???

I feel like I post so much I don't want to over do it lol