Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Whose doing the 25 day challenge

rpt.sunnymist · 8/30/2017 12:28 pm

Selfloveiskey wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:

Reminder not to do it. I have really high doubts and I know that's a problem. I'm not sure how to remove those
Dear, First of all even you already know what is worthy or what is not you are choosing it. Later if you doubt on universe ask yourself first.
I'm sorry I'm not understanding what you wrote but thank you for encouragement btw for all of us

Why sorry, It was just for FB that even u know stalking is not good you still chose. I think i should write it to you early.

Selfloveiskey · 8/30/2017 12:31 pm

rpt.sunnymist wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:

Dear, First of all even you already know what is worthy or what is not you are choosing it. Later if you doubt on universe ask yourself first.
I'm sorry I'm not understanding what you wrote but thank you for encouragement btw for all of us
Why sorry, It was just for FB that even u know stalking is not good you still chose. I think i should write it to you early.

Oh yea no it's not good gotta not do it he is currently with someone else but I know it's a rebound

Gratitude21 · 8/30/2017 12:32 pm

whitebutterflies11 wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
As i it heard, don't break No contact whatever the reason. Even for birthday.

Whitebutter, About patient you may have seen that latest success story on lanie's forum by Alexia.
I know they say not to break no contact; however I feel rude because just last month he reached out to me twice for my birthday. I feel rude if I don't send a simple happy birthday text. Especially because we are on good terms. Ya know? I mean he still liked my instagram posts! I just think if I didn't reach out it would make matters worse with him.

I think a simple 'Happy Birthday ' text does no harm, especially if you are in good terms. What probably Veronica means is that send it only if you are in the right space in your mind, meaning the text exchange doesn't again start the hammering him on the head again from you. You will be able to deal with it in the right way only if you understand that it just ends on the very first text. The worry is that if you are still in the mode of being angry or upset with him or are still pinning for him and missing him to pits, you will reverse the efforts you have been putting till now. If you are confident about yourself that you will not do any harm to the situation you have worked so hard to improve...please go ahead and wish him.
I'm no expert but this is just my understanding on this 'no contact ' process.

rpt.sunnymist · 8/30/2017 12:36 pm

whitebutterflies11 wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
As i it heard, don't break No contact whatever the reason. Even for birthday.

Whitebutter, About patient you may have seen that latest success story on lanie's forum by Alexia.
I know they say not to break no contact; however I feel rude because just last month he reached out to me twice for my birthday. I feel rude if I don't send a simple happy birthday text. Especially because we are on good terms. Ya know? I mean he still liked my instagram posts! I just think if I didn't reach out it would make matters worse with him.

Oh ok, i didn't know about insta. Go on with positive intentions. What i meant when they are not interested, left you & u starts NC then do not reach out, let them come.

whitebutterflies11 · 8/30/2017 1:15 pm

rpt.sunnymist wrote:
whitebutterflies11 wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
As i it heard, don't break No contact whatever the reason. Even for birthday.

Whitebutter, About patient you may have seen that latest success story on lanie's forum by Alexia.
I know they say not to break no contact; however I feel rude because just last month he reached out to me twice for my birthday. I feel rude if I don't send a simple happy birthday text. Especially because we are on good terms. Ya know? I mean he still liked my instagram posts! I just think if I didn't reach out it would make matters worse with him.
Oh ok, i didn't know about insta. Go on with positive intentions. What i meant when they are not interested, left you & u starts NC then do not reach out, let them come.

Yeah, it is kind of an odd situation. He ended things in early June saying he felt like we were in a "friend zone." So although we do not text anymore, he does like my social media posts. And wrote on my fbook wall and texted me for my birthday in July. My goal is obviously to get him to view me as more than a friend. I am doing this through sending him love, positive affirmations, visualizations, and Lanie's techniques.

whitebutterflies11 · 8/30/2017 1:17 pm

Gratitude21 wrote:
whitebutterflies11 wrote:
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
As i it heard, don't break No contact whatever the reason. Even for birthday.

Whitebutter, About patient you may have seen that latest success story on lanie's forum by Alexia.
I know they say not to break no contact; however I feel rude because just last month he reached out to me twice for my birthday. I feel rude if I don't send a simple happy birthday text. Especially because we are on good terms. Ya know? I mean he still liked my instagram posts! I just think if I didn't reach out it would make matters worse with him.
I think a simple 'Happy Birthday ' text does no harm, especially if you are in good terms. What probably Veronica means is that send it only if you are in the right space in your mind, meaning the text exchange doesn't again start the hammering him on the head again from you. You will be able to deal with it in the right way only if you understand that it just ends on the very first text. The worry is that if you are still in the mode of being angry or upset with him or are still pinning for him and missing him to pits, you will reverse the efforts you have been putting till now. If you are confident about yourself that you will not do any harm to the situation you have worked so hard to improve...please go ahead and wish him.
I'm no expert but this is just my understanding on this 'no contact ' process.

Thank you! I mean I definitely do read into certain things sometimes with him. Like he does have feelings for me, etc. But I do want to wish him a simple happy birthday just so I don't seem like a b*tch. Especially when he reached out to me via 2 separate forms of communication (facebook & a text).

Selfloveiskey · 8/30/2017 8:06 pm

So I guess I ll b starting over bad day sister and mom say i need to see a therapist and it's impossible won't happen. It's all terrible right now .

Gratitude21 · 8/30/2017 9:15 pm

Selfloveiskey wrote:
So I guess I ll b starting over bad day sister and mom say i need to see a therapist and it's impossible won't happen. It's all terrible right now .

Hi again. This is your journey and no one else's. Please be strong and trust yourself and the process. Yes, your family is right...it won't happen till you think it won't. Till you limit your beliefs...till you do not love yourself enough.
We all have it in us to make it happen. Please don't give up. I know things are difficult right now but please trust me when I say they will get better if you let them be. Don't give up after coming so far.
Yes, probably you do need self therapy which could be anything like going out for a movie or shopping. Sitting home and watching 'Friends ' it's always worked for me. We lost a good soul like Louise Hay yesterday but read her quotations they always make me feel so positive. It's ok if it's just momentarily.
Please read your name again ' Self love is definitely the key ' ...do that. Shift your mood. Just don't give up👍🏻

Selfloveiskey · 8/30/2017 10:01 pm

Gratitude21 wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
So I guess I ll b starting over bad day sister and mom say i need to see a therapist and it's impossible won't happen. It's all terrible right now .
Hi again. This is your journey and no one else's. Please be strong and trust yourself and the process. Yes, your family is right...it won't happen till you think it won't. Till you limit your beliefs...till you do not love yourself enough.
We all have it in us to make it happen. Please don't give up. I know things are difficult right now but please trust me when I say they will get better if you let them be. Don't give up after coming so far.
Yes, probably you do need self therapy which could be anything like going out for a movie or shopping. Sitting home and watching 'Friends ' it's always worked for me. We lost a good soul like Louise Hay yesterday but read her quotations they always make me feel so positive. It's ok if it's just momentarily.
Please read your name again ' Self love is definitely the key ' ...do that. Shift your mood. Just don't give up👍🏻

Thank you I just prayed for guidance I just want to feel better and I want other things in my life to work out too just as much as my guy. I guess I can move to day 7 I just had an extremely negative day today.

Selfloveiskey · 8/31/2017 12:31 pm

So I started this book I posted everyone should take a look at it it's called love yourself like your life depends on it I have listened to the audio 3 times already and will keep listening .

Also I was doing day seven technique in my car and it was listening to Neville Goddard lectures. Well I YouTube them so when the YouTube stops and is loading the next one my music from apply can come on. Well this time it shuffled to a song the title was closer . I kinda thought to myself hmm I ll take that as keep doing what your doing

Hope everyone is having a great day