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what if attracting an ex is not my main goal?
So i have been trying to attract an ex and it worked in about 3 months or as soon as i let go(a lot of things happened and i do not want to get into detail and i hadn't read any books from Veronica,i just watched youtube videos, did meditations and read a lot about loa). Long story short, i rushed things and i messed up everything i had done before. Now he has a girlfriend and it seems to me that he is happier.
So my question is, can i still use the 25 day challenge book in order to attract an even better person or maybe abundance in my life and wealth? I mean it would be nice to also attract him back but he seem happy so i shouldn't interfere.
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Re: what if attracting an ex is not my main goal?
I love your attitude! I think the best thing about LOA is improving your sense of confidence, self-love and self-worth.
I'm sure you can attract someone else just as good or even better! It's a hell of a lot easier than trying to manifest a specific person because you're open and not coming from longing or need or being fixed on a 'I won't accept anything else' vibe.
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Don't put a name or a face to the person. You can do the same visualisation or whatever but just don't specify who it might be. So just imagine being with someone and feeling excited and happy walking on the beach or cuddling or whatever the day calls for.
You don't need to be specific and it's much easier in lots of ways to do it with a non- specific person because you can just imagine and feel the feelings. With a specific person you'll have more resistance because you'll often think 'he would never do/say this!' or 'but what if it doesn't happen, he seems really happy with the new GF, should I be trying to do this?' etc etc. All these thoughts will pop up to distract you whereas with a non-specific person there are no reasons at all to think it's not possible as long as you believe in yourself and have confidence you can attract exactly the type of relationship you want.
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Lifesagas wrote:
I love your attitude! I think the best thing about LOA is improving your sense of confidence, self-love and self-worth.
I'm sure you can attract someone else just as good or even better! It's a hell of a lot easier than trying to manifest a specific person because you're open and not coming from longing or need or being fixed on a 'I won't accept anything else' vibe.
Oh waw...This message was so sweet. It really made my day 
.Okay, so if I use the 25 day challenge book, what do I do about the activities regarding an ex?
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Re: what if attracting an ex is not my main goal?
Great! Thank you so much!
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Re: what if attracting an ex is not my main goal?
Somehow I posted my most recent response after the one you posted but yours now shows as most recent! Weird.
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I edited mine before seeing that you have answered so that's why
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Ah okay!
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