I have a weird and almost eidetic memory so I can usually remember peoples posts just from memory. Which can be useful but also really annoying sometimes!

But you can always go to the desktop site and search a posters previous posts if you don't have a memory like mine.

When it comes to LOA and abusive people,  I think the perspective should be trying to figure out why those types believe you'll accept them. Also,  why you feel like you don't deserve better.

I don't know why I never received and email on updates on my post but. Okay so whats going is he texts me over a month ago calling me his soul mate and wants to be in our lives.  But, the problem is he's needing to seek out anger management.  I can't just allow him around us anymore without him blowing up.  Right now I cut him off my food stamp case cause, I didn't give him his portion the last few months and I was trying to go get a restraining order done up to force him to go get Counseling.  But, the stupid judge thought him breaking a window over at his mothers house was towards her and his dad.  But, they denied me recently.  And his mom couldn't get the extension on hers since they can't find him and he did show up at his moms church 3 weeks ago and she told him about the restraining order and he did say they will never find me.  And, he's pretty much declared war against his parents.  I am done with his drama and anger and want him to get help.  But he was gonna report me in adn I had to save myself and my daughter from beign cut off.  Until I get a job that I can get off welfare with I cant really buy food on my own.  I live with my mom and shes been so negative in my life and wants me to cut him out when really I want peace and harmony in our relationship.  Or things to renew and never have problems again.  He's had past drug issues mind you.  And been to jail.  Also I am tired of the very select few that come on my post and want to troll on my post aka Avalle.  And its people like you that make people leave Veronicas forum.  One person already on here stated they are leaving because of this negative bs.  Seriously its LAW OF ATTRACTION FORUM AND YOU ARE BEING NEGATIVE.  GET OFF THIS SITE IF YOU GO PROBLEMS WITH PEOPLE.    

As you said, It's a LOA forum so look at your life and change what is going badly - by making good choices that serve you, you can't change another person just by wishing it.

And no forum, LOA or not should be used to enable you to justify continuing in an awful and abusive situation. That's not being negative - it's caring about the fact that you are at real physical risk from this person and you need to focus on keeping you and your child safe, not try and make him better.

You can't. All you can do is remove yourself from him and concentrate on building a good life.

This forum is not a relationship counselling hotline and I think many users are at risk. I really suggest you talk to a family counsellor with the support of your ex mother in law who can better assess your situation and help you make the best decision possible.