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Dan2015 · 11/05/2015 12:45 pm

My ex girlfriend broke up with me Sept 7th.. so it's almost been 2 months.. I told Veronica this in an email, but I feel if I would have stayed calmed, not be in a depressed/desperate state I have 100 percent belief that I would have had her back by now.. It's just this strong feeling I have.

I've been operating in a fearful state.. fear that we won't get back together.. fear that we won't even ever talk again, we've talked a decent amount since the breakup but not as much.. Plus I think she's kind of seeing someone new(even though she hasn't really said for sure and about 2-3 weeks ago she said she was "talking" to someone) I'm pretty positive, but then these fearful/negative thoughts completely hijack me and I feel like they set me back

When I talked to Veronica, she said let my ex contact me.. which I'm guessing means don't try to control the outcome cause it will make things worse

I know the sooner that I'm not desperate,fearful,etc the faster I'll get her back.. but what are some tips for getting an ex back using LOA? I'm pretty new to LOA..So I'm not sure how to use it.. like what do I think about? what do I visualize? How do you do RS?

Thank you for the help.

Dan2015 · 11/05/2015 3:26 pm

Anything? any tips would be appreciated.

Ivy · 11/06/2015 3:16 am

Hi Dan
For RS technique I suggest you to go for Vera's posts, she explained how she did it and you will get the it.
For visualisation, it's just like daydreaming but you give it a direction to achieve your dreams. Find a quiet place and relax...close your eyes, still your mind and try to be calm and when you do this..just think about your girl (call her your girl. Not an ex..this is the first step towards her)
How she look like? How she talks? Can you recall her features...how she smiles? Can you recognise her voice? Just recall all those things about her from your past memories. Imagine her as you want her to be with you...hear her words you desire...
And most important don't think about other guys she is looking...in your world, she is yours and everything is perect as you want...and it will happen.

By the way thanks...unintentionally I gave this advice to myself too whilst writing it to you lol.

Maintain no contact with her until she approaches you because when we contact them still being in these needy, fearful or with any low vibes, it repels them and creates more distance. So till you reach at higher vibration be in NC, let her come to you.

Last edited by Shy (11/06/2015 3:32 am)

Ivy · 11/06/2015 3:39 am

Also, you're still at good place and be grateful for this because it's been just two months and if you keep your vibes high and consistently visualise everyday or do RS...you can quickly manifest her. I would always manifest his text when he broke up first time with me.
You can try with small step to build your faith, like manifest a text from her.

MrsPlaha · 11/06/2015 4:11 am

I agree with Shy. I used Vera's RS technique and had the same outcome as her! It definitely works! Was so powerful that I have not had to do it for ove month now and my guy cant keep his hands off me now, and begs to see me!

I would recommend that technique! I will bump up her thread too so its easy to find for the newbies ;)

Cherished · 11/06/2015 4:15 am

Definitely RS, and Vera's thread is loaded with everything you need for that. You don't need to contact her. If you can trust us all here and read lots of threads for advice you will have her back in no time at all! 😊

Ivy · 11/06/2015 4:21 am

I also want to read her thread again

Dan2015 · 11/06/2015 11:36 am

Thank you so much for the help everyone, I really wish I would have found this forum earlier... I honestly think she'd be mine again if I did... I notice I'm letting dumb fears get to me... like the fact she has never dated an ex boyfriend again and also we live a few hours away from each other.

Does visualizing and RS help when it comes to long distance?

Also, shy.. I notice exactly what you're talking about.. lately when I contact her.. it's either a short convo or she doesn't reply at all, and I feel like even if I don't notice it.. I still have the fearful/needy/etc state.. and she probably notices it and it pushes her away more.

I was talking to Veronica, and she said setting deadlines are good. as long as you don't get discouraged if you don't get what you want by that deadline.. So I'm setting a January 7th deadline that there will be A LOT of progress by then. and even potentially back together

I also know, that even if we fear the person doesn't have feelings for us,love us,etc.. we can't think like that.. we basically have to say "she/he loves us" "she/he misses us" things like that

Ivy · 11/06/2015 12:06 pm

Distance doesn't matter.

If you feel discouraged, read what Veronica said to you and watch her videos.
And yeah you can affirm to yourself but stick with only one technique... Either RS or affirmations or whatever you want to use.

Dan2015 · 11/06/2015 1:12 pm

A few things.. there can only be one of RS or affirmations? not both? I'm still very new to LOA, so I'm a bit confused

Also, at points during our breakup.. she said things like "i can't see myself ever feeling that way again" or "I don't think we'll get back together" it's weird, because for the most part I was a good boyfriend until the end when I became too needy/dependent LOA basically broke us up.. cause I remember a week before the breakup I was feeling that we'd breakup soon. but should I take seriously anything she said about a month or two ago? like "I want to think of right now, not the chances I change my mind in the future"

It's weird, because from day one when we brokeup... I've always felt we'd get back together eventually... but I do feel I set myself back some, with being needy and fearful

It seems like a lot of law of attraction people I talk to, feel pretty confident I can get her back by the spring and maybe even sooner.

I think I just have to get over my nerves and fear.

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