It still doesn't sound like a good situation at all.

Yea I'm unlclead of what you mean. I would focus on you and only be in contact when it's required . If he is threatening to cut off child support that is a more important issue then getting him back. It does sound like you have a lot of negative feelings toward him ( it's unclear to me the situation besides maybe cutting off child support) I m not exactly sure how you are when you are interacting with him on your end and if he is just reacting to you? Need more clarification on this whole scenario .

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He doesn't want you back if he isn't willing to do anything to make that happen and is making threats.

It's not your responsibility to try and change this. It has to come from him.

I personally think people react when they are hurt and do things to hurt other people definitely not right at all but it can be a thing. But I don't know this scenario I'm not there and honestly I think if he is threatening to cut off child support that is complete wrong and you should be more concerned about working that out. But I mean he could go to jail for that.he shouldn't be using that even if he is hurt that is his child

Last edited by Selfloveiskey (8/23/2017 10:53 am)

This guy has been violent towards you and other partners. His own family took out a restraining order, he steals, has drug problems and is in and out of jail.

You've posted before saying you feel you've failed in changing him and you only want positive LOA - you can change him responses.

I don't think any forum should encourage someone to feel they can change a situation that is as abusive and complicated as this.

You did not cause this. It is not your fault. This isn't 'you pushed out' because it seems everyone doesn't want to be around him, including his own family.

This isn't about you not doing enough or not manifesting properly or failing to change him.

It is not your responsibility - the only person that can change him is him. Let it go, think of him positively if you can and want things to change - but it is beyond you to make this person be better.

You need to think of you and your child and that's it. It's not your job to fix him and you can't.

I know you won't want to hear this but it's based on what you've posted and I think you're coming at this the wrong way thinking this is another problem in your manifesting - you and your manifesting isn't the problem.

He is.