I haven't been on the forum for a while, I decided to take a step back from the on/off long distance relationship that was causing me so much angst and pain - I decided if it was meant to be, then somehow things would work out .. what's meant for you wont pass you by and all that I was tired of all the visualising, remote seduction, scripting etc and I guess carried some resistance which probably blocked any long term success - so I stopped and unintentionally let go I suppose.  I carried on listening to loa vids on youtube daily as I worked, I did self love affirmations and if I heard from him even if it was negative I recorded how grateful I was in my journal. Gradually he contacted me more and more and each time he did I wrote how grateful I was etc .. really focused and felt the gratitude, then he started to visit unexpectedly, started to initiate loving texts and phone calls and has gone from visiting once a month (as we wre on/off) to 5 times in the last 9 days !!!! I'm so grateful, I could never have imagined things would turn around like they have .. ok, we have a way to go yet but we're in a completely different place to where we were a month ago,  I truly believe its down to letting go, accepting what will be will be and being truly grateful for the times he made contact or visited good luck everyone, don't give up - 2 months ago he told me we were going nowhere, I was devastated but things have changed completely.  miracles really can happen <3 PS. they other thing id recommend is not to chase, have some self respect, work on yourself. tThis is attractive - chasing is a repelant .