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Re: All Effort Feels Wasted
summer2k17 wrote:
Hello everyone.
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up at the beginning of May. I slowly got myself back together emotionally and around the middle of July, I discovered LOA. I've practiced techniques and my vibrations have been high. I successfully manifested us going out for brunch and overall maintaining contact. He calls and texts first. We've hung out. It was going well but earlier today, he tells me he still feels that although we shared a genuine love, there was still some incompatibility issues. I feel like the Universe has slowly given me what I've wanted, just to say "nevermind, just kidding." At this point, is LOA even possible?
If someone is so shut off to the idea, then is it possible? My faith is wavering. Has anyone experienced this before. If so, what was the outcome? I feel betrayed by the Universe.You manifested all that within less than 2 months and you're saying it's impossible?
Haha. This is true. It's just...I felt like I've been gaining momentum from my smaller successful manifestations. My ultimate goal was so close just for it to be shut down. I was unsure as to whether or not the Universe is ultimately telling me to stop or testing my limits.
I've been trying to manifest a text for almost 3 months and i've gotten nothing. I've been down but giving up was never my choice.
So what if the universe is testing your limit? If this is your limit then forget it. Why bother asking? Cos if you truly want him back you won't give up so easily. The question is do you truly desire this? Why are you whining when you've manifested like 98% of what you want? He said the love is genuine WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT?
There are success story where it takes 5 months to get the first contact, some even 10 months.
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Re: All Effort Feels Wasted
There's no time frame on these things. It could take you 10 minutes or even 10 years, it's all about what you project and how you feel about yourself.
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Re: All Effort Feels Wasted
I reckon this guy will come around.
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Re: All Effort Feels Wasted
I reckon this guy will come around.
From my experience, they always do once you've let go of any harbouring resentment and bad feeling towards them. 6 years ago I had a bad break up with someone I had dated for 4 years on and off. I was 20 at the time, I#m 26 on the 25th of this month and this year this person tracked me down on the PlayStation Network of all places through an old college friend. So time isn't an issue unless you make it one.
There was another guy I met online a few years back who I wanted to be with in real life that rejected me and ghosted me, I let go of that and he contacted me about 2 years ago, he told me he regretted it all and wanted to be my friend again. We text daily now. This guy lives in the North of England and I'm in South Wales, so distance isn't an issue at all in this case.
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Re: All Effort Feels Wasted
You manifested all that within less than 2 months and you're saying it's impossible?
Haha. This is true. It's just...I felt like I've been gaining momentum from my smaller successful manifestations. My ultimate goal was so close just for it to be shut down. I was unsure as to whether or not the Universe is ultimately telling me to stop or testing my limits.I've been trying to manifest a text for almost 3 months and i've gotten nothing. I've been down but giving up was never my choice.
So what if the universe is testing your limit? If this is your limit then forget it. Why bother asking? Cos if you truly want him back you won't give up so easily. The question is do you truly desire this? Why are you whining when you've manifested like 98% of what you want? He said the love is genuine WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT?
There are success story where it takes 5 months to get the first contact, some even 10 months.
He said the love "was" genuine but doesn't really feel it anymore and does not want to start another relationship. I should have been more clear.
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