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Im just wondering if acting as if requires me to do the things he likes. For example when I go to the beach he doesn't like me showing off. He is very conservative. So no swimsuits. But can i wear them while manifesting him? π
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Carisza wrote:
Yes, you can.
And if you are manifesting him back, also manifest him letting you doing things you want and like.
You shouldn't be acting and behaving like he wants you to. Do what you want, not what he wants.
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Ohhh! Thats an amazing idea! Thank you so much!
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Christiinnnnnee wrote:
Im just wondering if acting as if requires me to do the things he likes. For example when I go to the beach he doesn't like me showing off. He is very conservative. So no swimsuits. But can i wear them while manifesting him? π
Wearing a swimsuit or a bikini on a beach is normal behaviour, not showing off. You should always be true to yourself. What's his problem?
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Well since he's conservative he doesn't like me showing off skin. So swim suits are a big no no!
He explained it to me before... He doesnt want guys to cat call me (if thats what you call it) or guys disrespecting me. And also on the good side he wants to be the only one who can see my body π
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Sorry sounds like a touch of control to me. Adult women such as us can handle cat calling which says more about the cat caller than it does us. And I'm sure that won't happen on a beach where everyone is in swimwear.
Try visualising and affirming that you are accepted by everyone exactly for who you are, that you attract supportive and appreciative people and partners. You have done nothing wrong.
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This is off the topic of LOA but want to say, only you get to decide what you do with your body including what you wear.
And women should never feel they have to moderate their behaviour, how they act or what they wear because they might get cat called.
Men need to stop their harassing behaviour, it's not the responsibility of women to try to avoid it, they need to stop!