Havefaith91 wrote:

Well there it is. He told me he has moved on and is seeing someone else. I know I can get past this. But at this moment I just need to get it off my chest. The guy I spent the last 3 years attracting back to me and then we kept going through a cycle. I knew I needed to work on myself so this last break up in March, I decided was the final one for awhile. Fast forward to now. I have been going out and having fun, enjoying life, and working on me. I attracted a new car, and a mortgage approval. Now I just have to find the house i want. I'm far from being desperate for him. I even wished them both the best through the hurt. Please send me some positive vibes to get back on my feet. I know a lot of us here have been through this. I also would like to say I haven't been completely innocent through this past 4 or so months. I have gone out with other guys just to raise my vibe and feel beautiful. Casual things. Wishing all of you on this challenge the very best. We need to keep each other up!

The thing that drags me down is I used to attract him back within days. Or a couple weeks at most. This has been months. I'll get back into that positive phase. I do have unconditional love for him and do wish him the best even not with me.

 
You have attracted him back before. You've got proofs that you can do it. So if you want to do it again, of course you can.

Mine told me to move on and find someone else in march because he doesn't see me as a potential gf/wife. I hanged around for 2 months to be "friends" before i found LoA... It's been 2.5 months of NC now. And it's also long distance. But I believe he will be back. I dont know if he's seeing anyone else and I don't want to know either. You can do this. You've done it before anyway ...