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Vera wrote:
Watch Veronica's video, How to get your ex back in 25 days or less. It has everything there. Please be resourceful. Again, you have everything in this thread. We don't have to tell you what to do. Are you even reading the other threads here? There are very useful information here!Β
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Yep, I've almost read all of them. Just a few left. I learnt to accept my feelings now and accepting them makes it more controllable. But I would I still think of what he's doing now, with that girl..still got some work to put in. And also! When I think of him, I think of how he beg for forgiveness, but I feels like give him to beg for a while till I can fully have him back. Is this wrong, because I feel mad with it. I want to push him away to see how much effort he would do to come back to me. Is this possible?
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Blessedck wrote:
Vera, that was an amazing post!!
Hisoneandonly, I'm looking forward to reading positive posts from you! Good luck
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Sure! I can't wait to see positive things between us happen too!! Soon, I'll tell you guys how he is back to me.
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Hisoneandonly wrote:
Vera wrote:
Watch Veronica's video, How to get your ex back in 25 days or less. It has everything there. Please be resourceful. Again, you have everything in this thread. We don't have to tell you what to do. Are you even reading the other threads here? There are very useful information here!Β
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Yep, I've almost read all of them. Just a few left. I learnt to accept my feelings now and accepting them makes it more controllable. But I would I still think of what he's doing now, with that girl..still got some work to put in. And also! When I think of him, I think of how he beg for forgiveness, but I feels like give him to beg for a while till I can fully have him back. Is this wrong, because I feel mad with it. I want to push him away to see how much effort he would do to come back to me. Is this possible?
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No, this is really messy. It splits your energy and I wouldn't recommend doing it at all. It is such a low energy to want arguments, and to want to push him away and punish him. If you truly want this guy to love you, then you yourself must cultivate only love for him. And you do that by loving and appreciating things in your own life first. Don't throw malicious energy at him, it will not attract the kind of beautiful relationship that you are wanting.
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Cherished wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Vera wrote:
Watch Veronica's video, How to get your ex back in 25 days or less. It has everything there. Please be resourceful. Again, you have everything in this thread. We don't have to tell you what to do. Are you even reading the other threads here? There are very useful information here!Β
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Yep, I've almost read all of them. Just a few left. I learnt to accept my feelings now and accepting them makes it more controllable. But I would I still think of what he's doing now, with that girl..still got some work to put in. And also! When I think of him, I think of how he beg for forgiveness, but I feels like give him to beg for a while till I can fully have him back. Is this wrong, because I feel mad with it. I want to push him away to see how much effort he would do to come back to me. Is this possible?Β
No, this is really messy. It splits your energy and I wouldn't recommend doing it at all. It is such a low energy to want arguments, and to want to push him away and punish him. If you truly want this guy to love you, then you yourself must cultivate only love for him. And you do that by loving and appreciating things in your own life first. Don't throw malicious energy at him, it will not attract the kind of beautiful relationship that you are wanting.
Like cherished said its not worth it. I tried this with Vee to see if he would chase me if i pushed him away and ovbiously he didnt, he continued to distance himself even more. In the end I had to make the first move to get him back in my life. I wouldnt recommend this. I tried it twice and both times he didnt chase me like I wanted him too because I was at such a low vibration myself. I plan to get even closer to him now and forever be in his life π
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That's the way, Baby πππΌ
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Cherished wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Vera wrote:
Watch Veronica's video, How to get your ex back in 25 days or less. It has everything there. Please be resourceful. Again, you have everything in this thread. We don't have to tell you what to do. Are you even reading the other threads here? There are very useful information here!Β
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Yep, I've almost read all of them. Just a few left. I learnt to accept my feelings now and accepting them makes it more controllable. But I would I still think of what he's doing now, with that girl..still got some work to put in. And also! When I think of him, I think of how he beg for forgiveness, but I feels like give him to beg for a while till I can fully have him back. Is this wrong, because I feel mad with it. I want to push him away to see how much effort he would do to come back to me. Is this possible?Β
No, this is really messy. It splits your energy and I wouldn't recommend doing it at all. It is such a low energy to want arguments, and to want to push him away and punish him. If you truly want this guy to love you, then you yourself must cultivate only love for him. And you do that by loving and appreciating things in your own life first. Don't throw malicious energy at him, it will not attract the kind of beautiful relationship that you are wanting.
But when I think of him and imagine him is right beside me, I keep on thinking about that girl, no matter how much I try to ignore. Then I'll feel hurtful that I needed him to comfort me. I sometimes really feels like pushing him away because I'm really hurt but I know I love him, I'm just being mad and felt hurt.
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Cherished wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
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Yep, I've almost read all of them. Just a few left. I learnt to accept my feelings now and accepting them makes it more controllable. But I would I still think of what he's doing now, with that girl..still got some work to put in. And also! When I think of him, I think of how he beg for forgiveness, but I feels like give him to beg for a while till I can fully have him back. Is this wrong, because I feel mad with it. I want to push him away to see how much effort he would do to come back to me. Is this possible?Β
No, this is really messy. It splits your energy and I wouldn't recommend doing it at all. It is such a low energy to want arguments, and to want to push him away and punish him. If you truly want this guy to love you, then you yourself must cultivate only love for him. And you do that by loving and appreciating things in your own life first. Don't throw malicious energy at him, it will not attract the kind of beautiful relationship that you are wanting.Like cherished said its not worth it. I tried this with Vee to see if he would chase me if i pushed him away and ovbiously he didnt, he continued to distance himself even more. In the end I had to make the first move to get him back in my life. I wouldnt recommend this. I tried it twice and both times he didnt chase me like I wanted him too because I was at such a low vibration myself. I plan to get even closer to him now and forever be in his life π
Hi baby, so how would you do to get him even closer to you and forever be in his life? I was talking a friend that knows about LOA. She recommend me to give up because she says I've been keep on attracting him back then even he's back for a few months, he left again. And I'll keep on doing the same thing again. Well, at this point, I really don't understand why it keeps happening... deep inside me knows that I can't be with somebody else, I just want him, the old him who truly loves me and protect me. Then my friend would just says that "because you haven't met the special guy" well, it kinda frustrates me then I say no, I only want him.
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Why do you listen to your friends when YOU ARE THE ONE CREATING YOUR REALITY? You don't need their opinions. And you don't need your guy to comfort you. You need to find YOUR connection WITH YOU. You need to find your own power again, and sit in that for a while. And when you can find some self love and respect by doing various meditations and affirmations and processes (which we've all suggested ad nauseum) you will be in a much better position to attract him back. If that's all to difficult for you to do, perhaps yes, it might help to find someone new. But what you'll discover is that any problems you're having now, you'll also have in your new relationship unless you clean up your vibration. π
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Why do you listen to your friends when YOU ARE THE ONE CREATING YOUR REALITY? You don't need their opinions. And you don't need your guy to comfort you. You need to find YOUR connection WITH YOU. You need to find your own power again, and sit in that for a while. And when you can find some self love and respect by doing various meditations and affirmations and processes (which we've all suggested ad nauseum) you will be in a much better position to attract him back. If that's all to difficult for you to do, perhaps yes, it might help to find someone new. But what you'll discover is that any problems you're having now, you'll also have in your new relationship unless you clean up your vibration. π
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Like the meditation that Vera mentioned above? And nope, I wouldn't want to attract someone new but there's something funny is that a few guys will suddenly came and chat with me even one of them is someone who used to like me . But the end of the day he's the only one I want. I would do anything to get him back by using LOA
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It's weird that sometimes when I was walking, the image of his face shows up clearly , I didn't even want to visualise anything, it just shows up in a sudden in my mind and it makes me smile for a while. What should I do to clear that girl's image or existance out of my head? And any ways to keep your vibration high? When I'm awake I feels the low vibration then I'll tell myself that "I'm loved" or "we are back together now thankyou", but it doesn't help to raise my vibration high.