hello - looking for some encouragement today. I am going on about 1 1/2 mths of NC with my ex. We broke up about 4 mths ago and kept in contact here and there (mostly bc of my doing) but not once had met up or anything. I have been doing my best in trying to remain positive, acting as if I already have what I desire... but some days are better than others.  We are still connected on social media, which I try to stay off of... he has liked some of my posts and even my sisters but no real contact.. I'm not gonna lie I was a lil bummed out yesterday when I didn't see him like or comment on my nephews picture (it was his birthday and my nephew and him had a strong connection). One of our mutual friends (no one either one of us are that close to) planned a happy hour in a few weeks. I saw his name on the FB invite. Neither one of us has responded. Should I reply with a yes, and if so, when or wait to see his response? Of course I want to go in the hopes of seeing him. Knowing that I have the potential of seeing him in a few weeks is definitely helping with maintaining the NC on my end. Any advice on how I can manifest his presence at this happy hour?