happyinlove wrote:

HappyManifesting wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

See mine change if you read my post the other day I left feeling happy regardless that there was pda because of how he sounded when I left now and since Saturday night I have been getting anxious about them negative thoughts have been coming in yet the other day I felt knowing that this will work . So it changed would love to be positive and calm though so I can get my results lol messaged him today but so far got nothing.

I understand where you're coming from. It's not your obsession as of now. It's your habit of being rational. You saw them together, it didn't affect you but then your rational side creeps in and tells you it should affect you and you let it dominate you. You need to overpower your conscious mind and not the other way around.

Yea I was bothered by it at first ( see my post kinda flying high) but then I just worked to feel the best I can there and I noticed little things. The amazing part was when I left. I felt great days before and I felt great that night after alittle bit. I kept telling myself that it's an illusion ( like Jen said). Right now though especially I tried to be detached sending the message to him today by I'm currently some what disappointed and the day isn't over. I need to be detached and things will start moving more.

Let me tell you something and you may disagree with me but trying too much is not good. It can be trying too hard to get his attention or trying too hard to detach from the outcome, doesn't work. You've to let it come from within. When you "try" you resist. And I've been saying this over and over again; what you resist, persists.
So when you are trying to detach, you're giving more power to the attachment you already have with the outcome.
My advice, don't try. It will come at its own pace.

Last edited by HappyManifesting (7/24/2017 1:39 pm)

Not in the least. Trying to feel something that you don't want to feel brings in negativity. Feeling your emotions help you release resistance.
I think this is the major drawback of all those sugarcoated books. It doesn't teach you the real deal.

HappyManifesting wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

HappyManifesting wrote:

Not in the least. Trying to feel something that you don't want to feel brings in negativity. Feeling your emotions help you release resistance.
I think this is the major drawback of all those sugarcoated books. It doesn't teach you the real deal.

But if I'm jealous of her hurt that he is with her I've been told that promotes their relationship when I should be focus on feelings between he and I. Also focusing on the lack of response from him today the disappointment doesn't that promote lack?

Yes it does but aren't you anyway feeling it? You just don't wanna come in terms with it because you think it slows down your manifestation.
In fact, trying to avoid that feeling builds up resistance and that would sure as hell slow down your manifestation.
It's simple, when you let yourself feel something, it vanishes and that releases resistance.

Now, this is my opinion and this is what I've learned as well as did in my journey so far. This doesn't mean you have to listen to me. You do you. After all, LOA is all about finding your way and making yourself happy.

I agree with this 100%!!! I spent so much time avoiding negative emotions because I thought that's what I was suppose to do. I thought it would slow down my manifestation a lot or it would create more negative. I think it just created more doubts and fears.
Now, whenever it comes up I allow myself to feel it (sometimes I even write it down). Eventually, the feeling vanishes. I've even tried revisiting the situation that made me feel bad and the negative emotion I had associated with it the first time doesn't even come up. 
 

happyinlove wrote:

HappyManifesting wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

But if I'm jealous of her hurt that he is with her I've been told that promotes their relationship when I should be focus on feelings between he and I. Also focusing on the lack of response from him today the disappointment doesn't that promote lack?

Yes it does but aren't you anyway feeling it? You just don't wanna come in terms with it because you think it slows down your manifestation.
In fact, trying to avoid that feeling builds up resistance and that would sure as hell slow down your manifestation.
It's simple, when you let yourself feel something, it vanishes and that releases resistance.

Now, this is my opinion and this is what I've learned as well as did in my journey so far. This doesn't mean you have to listen to me. You do you. After all, LOA is all about finding your way and making yourself happy.

Ok currently frustrated that they haven't broken up yet and that I haven't gotten response having said that how can I make sure only positive comes from indulging these feelings?

I'm feeling the same way! I'm frustrated that my guy hasn't separated from his current girl and come back to me. I'm a phenomenal, confident woman and am very spiritually attractive (now because I wasn't before).

I think my way through those feelings. Like asking/telling myself: why do i feel this way? am I upset at things I don't know 100% to be true? their relationship is probably falling apart and I don't even know it. He probably thinks about me everyday. He doesn't even really like her. He's just sorting out his feelings right now. He's coming to the realization that I'm the one for him. I also remind myself of basic LOA principles: divine timing, current reality is only a product of past thoughts/feelings, only I can block the positive energy flow into my life, I'm the creator of my own experience, if I want my circumstances to change I have to change myself and my actions, etc.