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I have read on more than one occasion that obstacles are a sign loa is working and your desires are manifesting
Whilst this is reassuring (as I have a shedload of obstacles!)I cant understand how this can be - surely obstacles clearing or things running smoothly are more of a sign than a sign that the loa is working?
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I can only go on my own experience but I'm manifesting a relationship.
I use LOA but no 'techniques' as I've used LOA for years and it always works for me. I don't use RS or RI because I have moral objections to it and find it a bit creepy.
6 weeks ago he told me he couldn't be in any kind of relationship with anyone. BLOCK!
I said okay. Went no contact. He popped back up as if he'd never said it. I only replied when he did but there was a lot of contact.
3 weeks ago he suddenly disappeared. BLOCK! I did no social media stalking, just used LOA. I Sent 2 messages over 3 weeks because I pick up on his energy and knew he wasn't okay. I was ignored BLOCK!.
I carried on. No techniques. Just knowing. Monday he text me saying he'd been thinking about me a lot but has concluded we can only be friends from now on because he has feelings for me but is crap at relationships; he'll mess it up etc etc BLOCK!
I said okay. Carried on knowing. He's text me every day since then 'as friends', a hey you! Have a great day morning text and texts later on too. I only text when he does. I'm not sweating it. It's happening.
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Yup, going through some myself and this is just more encouraging for me.
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Lifesagas wrote:
I can only go on my own experience but I'm manifesting a relationship.
I use LOA but no 'techniques' as I've used LOA for years and it always works for me. I don't use RS or RI because I have moral objections to it and find it a bit creepy.
6 weeks ago he told me he couldn't be in any kind of relationship with anyone. BLOCK!
I said okay. Went no contact. He popped back up as if he'd never said it. I only replied when he did but there was a lot of contact.
3 weeks ago he suddenly disappeared. BLOCK! I did no social media stalking, just used LOA. I Sent 2 messages over 3 weeks because I pick up on his energy and knew he wasn't okay. I was ignored BLOCK!.
I carried on. No techniques. Just knowing. Monday he text me saying he'd been thinking about me a lot but has concluded we can only be friends from now on because he has feelings for me but is crap at relationships; he'll mess it up etc etc BLOCK!
I said okay. Carried on knowing. He's text me every day since then 'as friends', a hey you! Have a great day morning text and texts later on too. I only text when he does. I'm not sweating it. It's happening.
How long did he go absolute no contact for? It sounded like he was reaching out constantly, and it sounds amazing haha. He's totally in denial it looks sorta cute :')
Mine told me to move on and find someone else in march because he cannot wait for me for a year. We texted until may (mostly me initiating) until i found LoA and decided to go no contact.
It's been no contact since then -_- but he views all my story and liked my post last week, first since end of May. It's also long distance :')... But i get positive signs. Or so i think they are.
I'm waiting to hear your success story. .
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LearningToDetach wrote:
Lifesagas wrote:
I can only go on my own experience but I'm manifesting a relationship.
I use LOA but no 'techniques' as I've used LOA for years and it always works for me. I don't use RS or RI because I have moral objections to it and find it a bit creepy.
6 weeks ago he told me he couldn't be in any kind of relationship with anyone. BLOCK!
I said okay. Went no contact. He popped back up as if he'd never said it. I only replied when he did but there was a lot of contact.
3 weeks ago he suddenly disappeared. BLOCK! I did no social media stalking, just used LOA. I Sent 2 messages over 3 weeks because I pick up on his energy and knew he wasn't okay. I was ignored BLOCK!.
I carried on. No techniques. Just knowing. Monday he text me saying he'd been thinking about me a lot but has concluded we can only be friends from now on because he has feelings for me but is crap at relationships; he'll mess it up etc etc BLOCK!
I said okay. Carried on knowing. He's text me every day since then 'as friends', a hey you! Have a great day morning text and texts later on too. I only text when he does. I'm not sweating it. It's happening.How long did he go absolute no contact for? It sounded like he was reaching out constantly, and it sounds amazing haha. He's totally in denial it looks sorta cute :')
Mine told me to move on and find someone else in march because he cannot wait for me for a year. We texted until may (mostly me initiating) until i found LoA and decided to go no contact.
It's been no contact since then -_- but he views all my story and liked my post last week, first since end of May. It's also long distance :')... But i get positive signs. Or so i think they are.
I'm waiting to hear your success story. .
............................................................................................................................. learningtodetatch - I too am in long distance relationship, I feel your pain. thought it was over last week but he's done a complete turn around, not sure if LOA, or letting go or what really but totally gobsmacked as he was totally blanking me at one point
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Blossom1 wrote:
LearningToDetach wrote:
Lifesagas wrote:
I can only go on my own experience but I'm manifesting a relationship.
I use LOA but no 'techniques' as I've used LOA for years and it always works for me. I don't use RS or RI because I have moral objections to it and find it a bit creepy.
6 weeks ago he told me he couldn't be in any kind of relationship with anyone. BLOCK!
I said okay. Went no contact. He popped back up as if he'd never said it. I only replied when he did but there was a lot of contact.
3 weeks ago he suddenly disappeared. BLOCK! I did no social media stalking, just used LOA. I Sent 2 messages over 3 weeks because I pick up on his energy and knew he wasn't okay. I was ignored BLOCK!.
I carried on. No techniques. Just knowing. Monday he text me saying he'd been thinking about me a lot but has concluded we can only be friends from now on because he has feelings for me but is crap at relationships; he'll mess it up etc etc BLOCK!
I said okay. Carried on knowing. He's text me every day since then 'as friends', a hey you! Have a great day morning text and texts later on too. I only text when he does. I'm not sweating it. It's happening.How long did he go absolute no contact for? It sounded like he was reaching out constantly, and it sounds amazing haha. He's totally in denial it looks sorta cute :')
Mine told me to move on and find someone else in march because he cannot wait for me for a year. We texted until may (mostly me initiating) until i found LoA and decided to go no contact.
It's been no contact since then -_- but he views all my story and liked my post last week, first since end of May. It's also long distance :')... But i get positive signs. Or so i think they are.
I'm waiting to hear your success story. .............................................................................................................................. learningtodetatch - I too am in long distance relationship, I feel your pain. thought it was over last week but he's done a complete turn around, not sure if LOA, or letting go or what really but totally gobsmacked as he was totally blanking me at one point
I havent heard from him for so long i want to reach out... But signs are telling me he's near...
But i've been crying so much these few days 😞
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happyinlove wrote:
LearningToDetach wrote:
Blossom1 wrote:
............................................................................................................................. learningtodetatch - I too am in long distance relationship, I feel your pain. thought it was over last week but he's done a complete turn around, not sure if LOA, or letting go or what really but totally gobsmacked as he was totally blanking me at one point I havent heard from him for so long i want to reach out... But signs are telling me he's near...
But i've been crying so much these few days 😞Don't worry he is contacting you 😊
Yes... And when he does i know he's ready... ..
I cried through my meditation but i still think it'll be okay.
Thankyou for the encouragement ..
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I might have some explanation for this. See, there could be three reason, at least that's what I understand;
1) Obstacles are a way of Universe to check if you're ready for your object or are still vibing low. Because when you come across an obstacle, your reaction to it matters a lot.
2) Obstacles show you where is the blockage and you need to clear it asap because you are about to get your manifestation.
Or
3) It's something LOA experts tell us so that we don't get disappointed when we come across an obstacle and keep up with the positivity.
Either way, obstacles will only help you reach your manifestation.
Funny that I saw this post today... I read a Mexican proverb related to this earlier today which I also saved in my notes;
"Smile at the obstacle, for it is a bridge."
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