You are acting as if by chatting to these other people.

Mspenick07 wrote:

Greetings everyone!

I am a little confused. Since I have started the 25 day challenge (today is day 13 😊) I am attracting several men but not the one that my heart desires. I DO give these guys a chance (at least a phone conversation to explore the potential) but I feel as if I am cheating the process by not "acting as if" because if we were together, I wouldn't even give my number out. Plus my ex is who I love and think about most. Am I doing something wrong?

You are not doing anything wrong. These men are simply attracted to your new vibes. Take this a big sign that you are moving in the right direction.

Acting as if, don't mean it has to be a 24/7.thing. This is something that you do a few times throughout your day. By talking to other guys does not mean you are contradicting your desire. Just have as much fun as you want to have.