I may sound rude but you literally said "I believe he's still with this other girl" it doesn't matter how much energy you put into it, you still BELIEVE...if you're following Agnes you'd know that everyone is you pushed out, and if that's what you believe then you have self doubts about yourself and that you're second best. Why would you want to believe such thing? Also, you're noticing the absence of it, you can't notice it's not there and then get it.

Have you been preaching self love?

Last edited by sweetlove1990 (6/28/2017 7:52 pm)

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

That's not rude. I actually really appreciate the constructive criticism, so thank you!! And those are two really good points.
I've been thinking about the 'everyone is you pushed out' concept a lot lately which is why I've been trying to practice self love and really valuing/taking care of myself, but I should probably kick it up a notch. You're also right about absence. I didn't realize it, but that's exactly what I'm doing. I can't continue to notice the absence of him and still manifest. Any suggestions on how to not focus on the absence?

Yes! Do something that takes your mind off of it, or be thankful for what has come. You said everything is manifesting, so clearly you have good vibes, KEEP the vibes UP UP UP UP!!! That's such a good sign if so many things are manifesting! You want this fulfilling loving relationship with this person, I just learned this but yeah sometimes it's nice to have things FAST, but when it comes to love and maybe finding a new career/way to make extra money don't you just want to enjoy the journey? Like just imagine this one day you'll be saying "wow, when I was manifesting him this amazing thing happened, also this other amazing thing happened, and I saw this sign, heard this amazing song, etc" it's  like when Abe Hicks says "when you plant the corn do you go "well, corn, where are you??" It's a process you have to water it, it needs love and sunshine! And you wouldnt dig up the seed and say "YOU SEE THAT ORANGE TREE OVER THERE IS SPROUTING WHY ARENT YOU?????"

Just relish and enjoy those manifestations. Each day I'm learning and for the last few days Abe Hicks' "you are where you are" has really been such an important saying. There's always usually a reason to be where you are right now. Enjoy it!

Hello,
I am new to this and in an exact situation and state as you are, but all i can say is, as you are manifesting to be with your ex, he too is unknowingly manifesting to 'not being with you' by supposedly being with a new girl (sorry if it was rude),
Just remember there are two teams in a soccer field and both of them want to win, but only the one with more desire and dedication wins, same here, you need more desire to be with him than his desire of 'not being with you'
Another point of note is that manifesting a specific person (and that too an ex who doesnt want to be with you) is completely different than manifesting a random person, a car, a house or any inanimate object for that matter, so if you manifested a pizza today, it is going to take a thousand times more effort to manifest a pizza being delivered to you by your lover, but trust in the universe that your lover is rolling the dough for your pizza, things happen, and it takes time for amazing things to happen
I am sorry if I was blatant, but i too am in the exact same situation as you are, i believe that my ex too is kneading the dough for my pizza 😅,
Hope it helped 😇

sweetlove1990 wrote:

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

That's not rude. I actually really appreciate the constructive criticism, so thank you!! And those are two really good points.
I've been thinking about the 'everyone is you pushed out' concept a lot lately which is why I've been trying to practice self love and really valuing/taking care of myself, but I should probably kick it up a notch. You're also right about absence. I didn't realize it, but that's exactly what I'm doing. I can't continue to notice the absence of him and still manifest. Any suggestions on how to not focus on the absence?

Yes! Do something that takes your mind off of it, or be thankful for what has come. You said everything is manifesting, so clearly you have good vibes, KEEP the vibes UP UP UP UP!!! That's such a good sign if so many things are manifesting! You want this fulfilling loving relationship with this person, I just learned this but yeah sometimes it's nice to have things FAST, but when it comes to love and maybe finding a new career/way to make extra money don't you just want to enjoy the journey? Like just imagine this one day you'll be saying "wow, when I was manifesting him this amazing thing happened, also this other amazing thing happened, and I saw this sign, heard this amazing song, etc" it's like when Abe Hicks says "when you plant the corn do you go "well, corn, where are you??" It's a process you have to water it, it needs love and sunshine! And you wouldnt dig up the seed and say "YOU SEE THAT ORANGE TREE OVER THERE IS SPROUTING WHY ARENT YOU?????"

Just relish and enjoy those manifestations. Each day I'm learning and for the last few days Abe Hicks' "you are where you are" has really been such an important saying. There's always usually a reason to be where you are right now. Enjoy it!

YES! I can't wait for the day I look back on all of this and reflect on how sweet the process was. I love what you said "There's always usually a reason to be where you are right now." That gives me so much comfort and relief. The universe doesn't make mistakes and I'm in this place for a reason. I'm going to enjoy this place while continuing to live in the end and really feel the feelings that I want to manifest. Thanks again for all of your help. I'll be back with a success story very soon!
 

If not football, then take cricket or basketball or better yet snooker or golf, but the point is,the one with stronger desire wins, let your desire be so strong that he too desires to be with you, btw me and my ex started talking, we started texting, 😊, hope this too will serve you as an inspiration 👍🏻
Hope it helped 🤓