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Okay, so I started seeing this other girl and is kinda great.
I'm really crazy about her. We decided that we would be exclusive and not see other people.
Then she left the country to go back to her family until august, where she will move here for at least 2 years to study.
All was well the first couple of days. We texted daily and all that.
But now I suddenly have these doubtful feelings creeping up.
I know she likes me and want to be with me. But somehow, after the last relationship I was in, where my ex suddenly left me, I now have these feelings coming by, asking, doubting and fearing that she's not all that Into me anymore. Only because we don't text as Much as we used to.
I Really want these thoughts and feelings to go away. How do I do that? How do I get back to the old me, where I was full of confidence and sure that she was crazy about me?
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I think that when we meet someone new sometimes old limiting beliefs crop up. It's happened to me recently and I realised that it's nothing to do with the new person but how others have acted in the past. I'm working on cord cutting with individuals who haven't behaved well towards me in the past or where I've had emotional issues.
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I just really don't Wanna screw up this relationship because of stupid thoughts.
Say, what if my mind is thinking "doesn't she love me anymore?" And then the universe deliver that she doesn't love me anymore.
I just don't want that to happen. Again.
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Where is your evidence that she's gone off you?
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There's none. Only that she doesn't read and reply to my texts, like she used too.
I know it's just my mind playing tricks on me, because of my previous relationship.
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There's none. Only that she doesn't read and reply to my texts, like she used too.
I know it's just my mind playing tricks on me, because of my previous relationship.
You mentioned she's gone home to her family? So maybe she's just busy spending time with them?
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Maybe. But a text once in a while wouldn't be to much to ask for.
So, Maybe I Should just let it go. Let her do her thing. And if she texts, she texts. If not, then theres nothing to do about that.