DreamWalker wrote:

Delete him from snapchat.

 
How will it work? What if he wants to know about what I'm doing? What if that makes us more distant? I don't know dream walker, there's so many resistance.

Cherished wrote:

Yeah agreed, you need to delete him for now. You're stalking him. So your energy is waaaaay off. You need to reset. Delete everything for now, and work on yourself for a while. When you're feeling more centred, you'll easily be able to attract him back.

 
I know that I need to work on myself, but I'm scared that's it's not working. I got s full time job for myself to got distracted from it, but I would still miss him, and think of how would I feel if we're together, then it leads to relief then became sad. I thinks that I have him already but the thought of the girl makes me so angry because I know if we're together, I would be so upset, and argue with him. And arguing is the worst thing to him because he don't like to argue with me , well maybe this is another problem that he don't want me anymore... but I cant change that because I really love arguing with him I felt that he really love me when he argues with me. I feels that he at least care for me through arguing...it's another way to release stress..

DreamWalker wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

DreamWalker wrote:

Delete him from snapchat.

 
How will it work? What if he wants to know about what I'm doing? What if that makes us more distant? I don't know dream walker, there's so many resistance.

Worrying about circumstances is the resistance, which is exactly what you keep doing. Only GOOD can come from deleting him because you will no longer see those photos and you can stop giving this other girl your energy. I think the biggest mistake that you make is that you don't think in terms of the LOA. You think in terms of what you've been taught all your life. You think.. well if I do this then this other thing may happen and I don't want that.. or if I do this then it may stop something good from happening. That's not how the law works. Everything around you is a reflection of your thoughts and where you put your energy. THAT'S what creates circumstance like this girl. You have to truly realize that you attract EVERYTHING. There is no exception to the law. That means you attracted her to him! It sucks to hear but it's true! But it's actually good news, because that means you can make her go away too! One of my exes got a new girlfriend a month after we broke up and I told myself, he is rebounding and they will never last, and I forgot about her. Long story short, they didn't last two months. You see? Focus your mind on what you want, not on the circumstance you see and eventually new circumstances, one that match what you want, will begin to appear!

Wow.. did you get him back? And I know but I'm scared..
 

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (11/01/2015 8:54 pm)

Cherished wrote:

I want to point out that it doesn't matter if she got him back or not. That's not your story. You need to focus on YOUR STORY, and right now you're telling a pretty bad story. You need to stop trying to look for a magic way to get him back, and actually tend to your vibration.. Because that WILL bring him back if you take the time to improve your story. Debbie is right, your biggest problem is that you are not looking at this from an LOA perspective. And you're also not practicing LOA processes correctly. So it's difficult to keep advising you on what else to do. You're very lucky to have found LOA, so you should try to use it to your absolute advantage. That means stopping contact and stalking, and working on your thoughts to bring about a change in the relationship. You can't MAKE somebody be with you. But you can LOA wisely to ATTRACT them to you.

 
(cry) I know right..there's so many reason that he wouldn't want to be with me. I was focusing on my "wants" I didn't care about all the negative, or even why I can't be with him again. Even tho there's nothing left of me for him to love me again. I still didn't want to look at it.. till all these hits me and I feels like I'm not doing anything right, I know LOA works but I'm doing it wrong. I just don't know what is right. I got distract, I got focus on what I want, I believe it will come. But i keep on feels like something is wrong. Then I drop back to the old patterns.

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (11/01/2015 9:04 pm)

Hisoneandonly wrote:

DreamWalker wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

 
How will it work? What if he wants to know about what I'm doing? What if that makes us more distant? I don't know dream walker, there's so many resistance.

Worrying about circumstances is the resistance, which is exactly what you keep doing. Only GOOD can come from deleting him because you will no longer see those photos and you can stop giving this other girl your energy. I think the biggest mistake that you make is that you don't think in terms of the LOA. You think in terms of what you've been taught all your life. You think.. well if I do this then this other thing may happen and I don't want that.. or if I do this then it may stop something good from happening. That's not how the law works. Everything around you is a reflection of your thoughts and where you put your energy. THAT'S what creates circumstance like this girl. You have to truly realize that you attract EVERYTHING. There is no exception to the law. That means you attracted her to him! It sucks to hear but it's true! But it's actually good news, because that means you can make her go away too! One of my exes got a new girlfriend a month after we broke up and I told myself, he is rebounding and they will never last, and I forgot about her. Long story short, they didn't last two months. You see? Focus your mind on what you want, not on the circumstance you see and eventually new circumstances, one that match what you want, will begin to appear!

Wow.. did you get him back? And I know but I'm scared..
 

Please tell me that's not all you took away from this.