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Everyone has different beliefs on these type of things
But if what some are saying is true. Your resistance(I know some hate this word) from the situation with your girl, impacts the rest of your desires(especially those with people)
Since it doesn't matter what topic the resistance is for, it has impact on everything.
Plus. Maybe your subconscious mind didn't truly believe? I'm not sure.
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This is why I brought up the idea of a debate about resistance. I really do NOT understand it at all. I have great difficulty in trying to get my head around something that should be simple, and immense difficulty with unconscious resistance - I mean, if we don't get results because we have unconscious resistance how in hell can we solve it?
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
This is why I brought up the idea of a debate about resistance. I really do NOT understand it at all. I have great difficulty in trying to get my head around something that should be simple, and immense difficulty with unconscious resistance - I mean, if we don't get results because we have unconscious resistance how in hell can we solve it?
Good point. It's interesting
I think our faith/belief on subjects matters a lot. For example. If I was gonna run a marathon. But deep down. I know I won't even get halfway through, then most likely I won't finish
It's hard to explain. Cause. There's been times I've manifested stuff, and was miserable lol
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Dan2015 wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
This is why I brought up the idea of a debate about resistance. I really do NOT understand it at all. I have great difficulty in trying to get my head around something that should be simple, and immense difficulty with unconscious resistance - I mean, if we don't get results because we have unconscious resistance how in hell can we solve it?
Good point. It's interesting
I think our faith/belief on subjects matters a lot. For example. If I was gonna run a marathon. But deep down. I know I won't even get halfway through, then most likely I won't finish
It's hard to explain. Cause. There's been times I've manifested stuff, and was miserable lol
I found this:
There must be easier ways instead of forking out money though!
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I didn't read all of it. But will later. But that's a great read
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YesIWILL wrote:
lolabear wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
APpreciatw the help, but you're very wrong on the beginning parts. With this, I had zero resistance, and I was sure it was going to. E a girl. Sorry.You: Why didn't it work?
Everyone: This is why.
You: No, you're wrong.
Okay, whatever you say, man. Keep doing what you do, since it's super effective and all.That is NOT WHY. Jesus. Again, seriously, I KNOW I have no resistance here in this situation. I just felt good about it with excitement, let it be.
You can't tell me, or assume something, when you don't even know how I'm feeling. So you're wrong.
Again, that's like saying, "You have orange hair" and I say "no I don't. Then you tell me I do, and say I'm wrong?!
Seriously. I'm me, I know me. Take what I say about ME, because IM THE ONLY PERSON WHO COULD TRULY KNOW, NOT YOU, and if you're willing, try and help me find an answer based upon the given information, without making assumptions or without telling me I'm LYING, I'd appreciate it. Thank you.
You get so mad. π
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lolabear wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
lolabear wrote:
You: Why didn't it work?
Everyone: This is why.
You: No, you're wrong.
Okay, whatever you say, man. Keep doing what you do, since it's super effective and all.That is NOT WHY. Jesus. Again, seriously, I KNOW I have no resistance here in this situation. I just felt good about it with excitement, let it be.
You can't tell me, or assume something, when you don't even know how I'm feeling. So you're wrong.
Again, that's like saying, "You have orange hair" and I say "no I don't. Then you tell me I do, and say I'm wrong?!
Seriously. I'm me, I know me. Take what I say about ME, because IM THE ONLY PERSON WHO COULD TRULY KNOW, NOT YOU, and if you're willing, try and help me find an answer based upon the given information, without making assumptions or without telling me I'm LYING, I'd appreciate it. Thank you.You get so mad. π
Only because people think they know me better than they know myself
That's like me saying "My name is Richard"
And you being like, "No it's not! Don't be stupid."
And I'm like "It is though! Jesus!"
And then you being like, "Dude ******* listen to us. We're all saying you're wrong so you're wrong!"
That's basically you right now. It's no wonder I'm being defensive
Anyone would get pissy from someone practically saying, "I know you better than you know yourself". I just get pissy faster than othersΒ
And no, my name isn't Richard lol.
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And Dan, Megan, and everyone else who've helped (including you, Lola! I know you're trying to help me) - Thank you so much! I appreciate the help. I may not understand fully why things haven't happened yet, but I do appreciate the input. Just want to make that known <3
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YesIWILL wrote:
And Dan, Megan, and everyone else who've helped (including you, Lola! I know you're trying to help me) - Thank you so much! I appreciate the help. I may not understand fully why things haven't happened yet, but I do appreciate the input. Just want to make that known <3
You're welcome
You should read the link she gave, I think it may make things more clear
You do seem a lot better than you were a month ago though, I feel if you don't let these two things bring you down, you should continue making progress
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YesIWILL wrote:
lolabear wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
That is NOT WHY. Jesus. Again, seriously, I KNOW I have no resistance here in this situation. I just felt good about it with excitement, let it be.
You can't tell me, or assume something, when you don't even know how I'm feeling. So you're wrong.
Again, that's like saying, "You have orange hair" and I say "no I don't. Then you tell me I do, and say I'm wrong?!
Seriously. I'm me, I know me. Take what I say about ME, because IM THE ONLY PERSON WHO COULD TRULY KNOW, NOT YOU, and if you're willing, try and help me find an answer based upon the given information, without making assumptions or without telling me I'm LYING, I'd appreciate it. Thank you.You get so mad. π
Only because people think they know me better than they know myself
That's like me saying "My name is Richard"
And you being like, "No it's not! Don't be stupid."
And I'm like "It is though! Jesus!"
And then you being like, "Dude ******* listen to us. We're all saying you're wrong so you're wrong!"
That's basically you right now. It's no wonder I'm being defensive
Anyone would get pissy from someone practically saying, "I know you better than you know yourself". I just get pissy faster than othersΒ
And no, my name isn't Richard lol.
But that's exactly my point.
To me, if someone is truly confident in their beliefs and their truth, they WOULDN'T get pissy, and they certainly wouldn't feel the need to defend themselves to anyone, especially people who are irrelevant to their life (like me). Don't you see how that kind of reaction would only further my beliefs about you?
Anyway, you're going to say what you're going to say, BUT you have to start acting like it too! Stop being so reactive. You cannot let negative things bother you, that's the entire point of the LOA- focusing on the positive. If you want to believe, then quit trying to debunk it, and keep on trying!
You also have to stop acting like you're just some target that people like to freely attack, cause you're not. If you accept the LOA then you have to accept that you're a match to whatever you're getting. Period. If you continue to believe that people are just randomly assholes then that's all you'll ever get. And it's not about blaming yourself, it's much more powerful than that. I can tell you from personal experience how liberating it is to see behavior you don't like, change your perception of that person and watch their behavior turn around completely.