From what I know, loa is based off these two things.    I think people's biggest problem is, they look for "get ex back" tips everywhere, stumble upon loa.   Think it's some magic trick and feel like they'll get their ex back/specific person immediately

Faith and belief is hard to have at times, but if you truly believe in God and/or loa. What else do you have?  You're not always going to see set in stone proof and I think this scares people

It's really hard, but you have to have belief/faith and tbh. If you're on this forum and don't have your person. What do you have to lose?     Some of us have been without our person for months and years and it's like we still have the same mindsets that got us to this point

I'm not saying it's all our faults, since sometimes it's hard having belief in what you can't see, but I do believe magical things happen, especially when we least expect it.   Some of us, who look lost now.  Could suddenly get their person       I feel like, if you've gone so long without the person and still hold the same lack of belief/faith.   Why not Change it and see what can happen?    I mean, if what we are currently doing isn't working.  Why not change it?