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Blessedck wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Go back to page one of this thread. Start there, for it is a treasure chest of wonderful words of wisdom, advice and encouragement from many people.
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I just finish reading all of the advice and so on. And I have only one thing in mind is that just focus on the thing I want, and ignore the current reality like living in my own world. Is this correct? But how bout the HOWS?Hisoneandonly,
I know it's really difficult to not contantly think about the "how's" but finally after a long time I realized that wondering about the how's did not help me progress. Rather I was always upset. Now, I'm not thinking how it will happen rather I know it will happen. I'm feeling happy and I'm confident.
Trust me looking for evidence or wondering how just indicates that you have doubt and fear.
You can do this!
Β Thankyou so much blessed! I'm blessed to have you here
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Debbie wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Go back to page one of this thread. Start there, for it is a treasure chest of wonderful words of wisdom, advice and encouragement from many people.
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I just finish reading all of the advice and so on. And I have only one thing in mind is that just focus on the thing I want, and ignore the current reality like living in my own world. Is this correct? But how bout the HOWS?Forget the hows too. Forget the hows and the buts! lol.
When you send out your intention to get him back, remember that you don't need to figure out how it will manifest. That's the job of the universe to figure out the how. Even if right now you obectively see all kinds of obstacles as to why he can't come back, just push those right aside and tell yourself very firmly that the universe will do the work and that your job is to sit back and wait for it to happen. Tell yourself that he CAN come back and he WILL come back. You don't know how it will happen, but just send out your intention daily and then wait patiently for it to manifest. It could be instant. It could be in three days. It could be in three months. But you can be sure that the more you let go and allow it to happen, then the Universe will have no choice but to make it happen and the sooner you will get yor wish come true. Trust it.
Oh and best of luck about the exams! Sending you vibes!
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Β Awww debbie hugs! Thankyou!!
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I was focusing just the thing I want, I even stop looking at the negative thoughts, I just stop them. Is this correct? Then I was distracting myself with celebrate halloween with my friends. Well, I tried to get him off my mind but I couldn't, I just miss him a lot( I hope it doesn't ruin anything). Till night time, we were having our Halloween dinner, two of our common friends were chit chatting.. they were talking bout,how he's having a new girl over there and how close there are.. it breaks me. I felt so sad and angry at how he can replace me like that because one of my friend just ask "how can he be so fast" the other one just say that " its not at all, its been a month, he needed people to accompany too." Urgh...I even post a post on Snapchat with "thanks for replacing me" I felt so angry and disappointed, like how he break his words.. he said he won't ever find any girl but only me... but now? Ive tried to close my ears, to not listen and stop my mind to stop thinking bout it, I just can't, it's not helping...I've been trying so hard. But why.
I was decided to study in UK because he's there.. When we're tgt, I decided to go over even not in the same city but I really wanna go there at least, we're in the same country, but now...Even I'm going now, it doesn't change anything right, he's still with that girl,and I might be alone..it's so hard to decided, should I just give up?
The thought of giving up makes me feels relief for a while because I kinda accept he's not coming back, but at the same time, I really want him back, I love him so much...what if LOA cant help in such a long distance relationship. I don't see anything between us.. guys?
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I know I shouldn't give them any power...i just can't help it with thinking of them... argh.. my guy...
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Hisoneandonly,
You really need to stop tracking his life...You have got great advice. But if you are going to keep on checking the current reality - how are you going to create a new one?
Β Also when your friends start talking about him, just ask them to stop and talk about something else.
Stop checking on him and contacting him for atleast one or two months, follow the advice diligently and see where it goes.
It is in your hands - It is all about You and Your Vibration.Β You manifested this new girl and you can also manifest him back to your life.
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LovingLight wrote:
Hisoneandonly,
You really need to stop tracking his life...You have got great advice. But if you are going to keep on checking the current reality - how are you going to create a new one?
Β Also when your friends start talking about him, just ask them to stop and talk about something else.
Stop checking on him and contacting him for atleast one or two months, follow the advice diligently and see where it goes.
It is in your hands - It is all about You and Your Vibration.Β You manifested this new girl and you can also manifest him back to your life.
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Hi lovinglight Thanks for your reply. I did stop tracking it, it was their conversation i jz accidentally heard it. And we did go for NC right now for almost a month. It makes me miss him so much. I didnt check on hin either.. i thought i did the whole ignore current reality thing great... well at least a few days. But now...i felt hopeless and devastated.
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A few days is not enough honey.. π And a few days when? Because I've not seen one full day of positivity in this thread yet?
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Cherished wrote:
A few days is not enough honey.. π And a few days when? Because I've not seen one full day of positivity in this thread yet?
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But how do I deal with what's happening right now...I just started work today. It could get me distracted, but I need to change my mindset right before I got distracted..and I read everyone's snap including his, I didn't mean to track on his life purposely but I keep seeing that girl on his snaps. Please turn this around. Stop these please.
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Please I can't get those image out of my head. Please tell me what can I do..
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Delete him from snapchat.