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Hi everyone! I am working on attracting my ex back. Currently he is with someone else and I know that is something I fret about and gets in the way of my manifestation. I guess what I end up thinking about is maybe they are happy together, and other thoughts like that. How do I keep from having that bring me down and really believe that he wants to me with me instead?
Any of your thoughts would be very appreciated. Thanks!
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Just consider it as an obstacle. Its not real and you and him are meant to be together. He doesn't love her, he loves and misses you.
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That's lovely. Deep down that I how I feel. I guess it's just easy to be distracted by what you see in your current reality and "fill in the blanks" in your mind, which isn't always positive!
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Don't give it credit.
Read that again.
Don't give it credit.Β
Now that that's out of the way, here is how it works.
Imagine your life is a straight line. You were walking on that line unaware of your powers as a conscious creator until, suddenly, your lover left you.
Now you're not walking on that line, but on a parallel line were you've made your firts approach to the Law of Attraction. Only because of that, your new path has a different ending than your old path. You changed your destiny by manifesting a breakupΒ because of your fears, expectations and limiting beliefs.
Do you follow?
In fact, you were probably expecting your lover to find somebody else. You probably said it at loud many times, did you not?Β
Not to blame you. I did. It's okay. You're on a new path now, and that old path has nothing to do with you.Β
Now. As you grow, evolve and improve, you will be opening new paths, all of them with different endings, different results. Tell me, if you grow as a person a become a different being that the one that manifested the breakup, do you expect the same results?Β
So, what you need to do in this new path:Β
1) Forgive yourself for manifesting the breakup
2) Forgive your lover for leaving you
3) Take a look of your limiting beliefs that created those fears and thoughts
Common limiting beliefs: I'm not worthy of love, I'm not deserving. I'm not enough, He or she can find someone better than me, etc.
GET RID OF THOSE LIMITING BELIEFS.
Substitute them for
I am worthy
I am Love
I am Loved
I am Wanted
I am Worthy
I Am enough
etc
Now, tell me, as you grow as a confident person who knows his selfworth and who knows he's the creator of his life, would you still be on the same path were your lover leaves you and finds another person, or would you expect a path where that third person goes away and your lover comes back to you?Β
Be better and expect better.
In the meantime, don't give any credit to whatever your lover is doing or not doing. This journey is about you. The more you think about that which you don't want, the more you give it energy. Change your focus towards yourself, your life, your passions, your friends,...and that unwanted circumstance will lose momentum and go away.Β
You have to do nothing else but focus on yourself. At least for a while, until you find your self-worth.
Hope it helps
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Lolo - your post was amazing. Thank you! I need to really watch myself and cut myself short when I start paying too much attention to what he is currently doing or what I think he might be thinking and feeling!