Hello, kind souls. On my last post, I received many inboxes and I hope my advice helped many. However, I haven't written in a long time because I wasn't feeling so cool. 

Now I am, and I'm going to tell you a secret.

But first, so you know I preach what I say, let me tell you about my latest success. A couple of months ago I became the screenwriter and creator of a comedy web show. Nothing too serious, maybe, but it made me feel excited, joyful, and passionate. It was what I always wanted, to writers series.

I've always wanted to have a creative job, and I've always felt very talented and creative, so I had no resistance on the matter. As soon as I got the job, even though it had no pay, no real plan, and no guarantee, I already felt as a successful screenwriter. 

Today I just signed a contract to write a movie with the same studio, for a lot of money. Why? Because I felt like a successful writer. I just trusted I was on the right path.

I lived with my desire fulfilled, and it was easy because I trusted myself. 

This is the secret: 
Each time you change your perspective of life, each time you change your focus, you are literally changing your reality. 

As you change you're within, your without will change with you. Is just how it works.

So, maybe believing you're already in a relationship with your lover, or believing you'll have it very soon is a bit hard to you. No matter. Fake it until you make it.

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I see so many people on the forum opening threads to discharge what they feel, what they think happened, what they think is not working. 

No no no. This is not how the universe works. Your reality is just the illusion made by your PAST STATE OF BEING, it has nothing to do with the I AM THAT I AM that you're on this HERE AND NOW.

You follow?

Your current reality, also, is just as real as your seed reality. As what you have in your vortex. As the desires, you have in your heart. As the possibilities, your Higher Self is already enjoying.

Read that again:

Your current reality is as real as your seed reality. 

So it doesn't matter what happened to you, how much time it has passed, how many people are involved, how to hurt you are.  What matters is that you change and become a better version of yourself, what matters is that you change so much for the better that you no longer identify yourself with the past representation of yourself that manifested your unwanted circumstances.

Again.

Improve in such a way that you no longer recognize the old self that manifested the breakup. 

That is your first step towards your reconciliation and towards your dreams. If you ask me, you'll first need to heal the heartbreak and forgive all the people involved, including yourself.

Then, here are a couple of techniques you can do: 

1) Revising your past: 
As you get in a better vibe, take a look of your past, of all of those moments you think brought all of the things you dislike of your present moment. See it, feel the pain, and then, set it free. Say to yourself that you're willing to let it go, that you no longer identify yourself with that memory, that you forgive the people involved, and that you set free of all negative emotions involved.

Then, as you have a new state of being, recreate that scene with your new personality. Make it as good as you like. Play with it.

Realize that you're literally changing your reality by doing that. Also, bit by bit, you're brain will be making new neural pathways associated with the new memories.

2) Change your perspective
See life through a new lens. As many teachers say: when something makes you feel bad, is because you're focusing on something that goes against who you truly are, that goes against your desires. 
Just change your perspective. See yourself as the person you'de like to be already. Feel like the person you'de like to be. In fact: you are already enjoying a new relationship with your person, you know that person loves you, wants you, respects you and admires you as much as you do. 

it may feel fake at first, so fake it until you make it. You can visualize, affirm and transform negative beliefs every day until your new perspective feels as real as what you see with your eyes.

Oh, and the best part is that you don't need any evidence for it to be real. Your only evidence is within yourself: 

Whenever you feel good means you're going towards your desires. And, more so, whatever you believe it's what's true. 

So, change your focus and change your reality. As you change your perspective, your feelings will start to change your beliefs, and finally, your subconcious beliefs will change your reality. 

As Rhonda Byrne says, visualize until your desire feels as yours as your name. Visualize and affirm until what you see no longer makes sense to you. 

Be persistent and relentless with what you want. 

Disclaimer: 
I'm not encouraging you to obsess. One visualization in the morning and one by night plus one round of affirmations in the middle of the day is enough. YOu can also add some gratitude practice to your days.