Lolo wrote:

Yes Rise doesn't need our help anymore. He's already manifesting the love he wants and only because he found it within himself first.

Yes Rise doesn't need our help anymore. If he happens to fall again, he will just tell himself that everything is okay, that what he wants already exists, that his thoughts are manifesting into his life.

Yes Rise doesn't need our help anymore, he's got this. Se we can leave this post alone

Wrong person!

Think of yourself as a drink.  At some point,  you did RS which made her think of drinking.She has left the door open, communicated with you a little etc so that she can get to the drink. The problem is, the drink tastes bad.  She can smell the ingredients sadness, fear, distress and she doesn't want to taste and feel those things. What you need to do is change those ingredients. Don't worry about what is being said and done on her end, change the ingredients. 

I"m hoping that this helps you some.

YesIWILL wrote:

So I've been trying to shy away from the forums, avoid thinking of my girl and just focus on myself. I've been doing pretty well! I've been working and been having an amazing time! Well tonight I got drunk and after a few hours thought "****... I didn't..." Apparently texted here, "I hope you're having a good evening. Thinking of you"a wave of "****" washed over my mind... No response.

Feeling like crap now, trying to stay positive.

I would honestly suggest, emailing yourself the number.  And just deleting her out of your contacts for now

It was a bit of a retrograde step but I am sure you can come back from it. Try not to dwell on it.

So just an update.

I think I've figured out what my blockage was. I don't have any ill feelings toward her. I was thinking about what Dan had said and I though long and hard about it, and honestly, after everything she's told me (ie: "I do NOT like you in that way!! I am not attracted to you anymore!!! I will NEVER EVER BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!!!!! EVER!!!!!!!") and how convincing she's been with her words and actions, how they've proven that she means what she says... and how broken things are between us... to the point that she doesn't even care about me, nor want me in her life (she's blocked me everywhere and really doesn't care about me, nor want me anywhere near her life)... she's actually moved on. And I guess in knowing that it leads me to believe, deep down, that no matter how hard I try... that she won't come back. And that's my blockage. I don't believe this can change. I don't believe she'll ever come back. Especially since it was incredibly toxic.


So with that said, I think my next step is to find a way to believe that she will come back into my life. Because deep down I don't believe it. I believe I can manifest things, but with her... I just don't believe it's possible after how far gone she is in relation to me (Like, how much she wants nothing to do with me, and how far [and I'm sure it's farther than most, if not ALL the people here] I've pushed her away from me)

So I really need to find a way to believe that she can come back into my life. I just don't know how to break that barrier, blocking me from believing that. But I'm really happy I've found my blockage. Thank you Dan!

Last edited by YesIWILL (6/12/2017 10:16 pm)