Lolo wrote:

Her'es a story to pick you up.
From The Secret website, 27 May 2017

"I Get Everything I Want!

I was so unhappy with my life. I was miserable in my job, I was in love with my ex who I hadn’t seen in 7 years but couldn’t let go of and I just couldn’t make relationships work. I was broke, overweight and basically, blah!!

I had read The Secret collection of books, The Power, The Magic, etc., but for some reason I just couldn’t focus on the process. I was desperate for change but felt stressed, anxious, sad and quite depressed. I was desperate for change but my energy and thoughts was all about ‘loss’. I kept trying to bargain with the Universe. I pleaded for change but I felt so much attachment to what I wanted.

I had asked for $30K to pay off my debts. I desperately wanted my ex to get in touch with me even though as I had stated, it had been 7 years with no contact. I hated my job so much that I didn’t want to be there anymore but felt obligated to stay. My boss was so nice and they had put so much training and work into me for 2 years. I felt ‘stuck’.

One day, I got so tired of worrying and asking and longing that I basically gave up. I thought ‘That’s enough,  I’m done’. It was from that moment that I honestly stopped with the crazy thoughts and stress.

Then the weirdest thing happened. Everything I asked for happened. This is the complete truth!! Within 2 weeks of giving up, my ex sent me a text. It was completely out of the blue on my birthday, asking how I was!!??!! We cleared the air and have been emailing each other regularly and we began slowly dating again. He apologized for everything and the passion and attraction is still there. He even admitted to not being able to forget me. He tried but he couldn’t. I am really excited about our future together because things seem to be getting better as each day passes. Also, I get so much dejavu as he says and does so many things that I had dreamed about, weird!!

In regards to work, I was set up by a jealous colleague and I was forced to take a redundancy. Ironically, my payout was $30K!!??!! I couldn’t believe it. I also left on positive terms with my boss. I learnt that I should have stated that I wanted that money but wanted a better job to go with it!!  I’m not complaining as it now allows me to finally start my own business since I was very tired of working for other people.

So basically, I received everything I wanted once I let go.

I stopped worrying and stressing. Also, when something ‘terrible’ happened, I would look for the positive and would thank the Universe. Then something positive seems to come!! I thanked the employee who set me up as I now have the money I wanted and I no longer have to go to a job that I hate. I now have time to rest and focus on my new business. The more grateful I am, the more I receive. That is the key!!!

Let go!!!!! And watch your life blossom into the life you have lived in your dreams. Also remember, when it looks like things are going wrong, just know that the Universe is moving things around to give you what you want! Be grateful and then you will receive more to be grateful for!!!

I’m so excited about my life and feel so much joy and happiness each day! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!"
  

So, if it was possible for that couple to go back after 7 years, I don't think pushing limits for our puny cases is worth it.

Also, learn from it. As soon as she let go of the obsession and the desperation, things started to happen. Trust the process and stop overthinking, stressing, fearing and trying to make it happen. 

Amazing!!! thank you so mucho for sharing this wonderful tetimony!!! 

Lj, don't give up. We can all get our person back if we truly believe it. I am so grateful for all the great advice I received through this post. I'm not giving up

Lj wrote:

Lolo wrote:

Her'es a story to pick you up.
From The Secret website, 27 May 2017

"I Get Everything I Want!

I was so unhappy with my life. I was miserable in my job, I was in love with my ex who I hadn’t seen in 7 years but couldn’t let go of and I just couldn’t make relationships work. I was broke, overweight and basically, blah!!

I had read The Secret collection of books, The Power, The Magic, etc., but for some reason I just couldn’t focus on the process. I was desperate for change but felt stressed, anxious, sad and quite depressed. I was desperate for change but my energy and thoughts was all about ‘loss’. I kept trying to bargain with the Universe. I pleaded for change but I felt so much attachment to what I wanted.

I had asked for $30K to pay off my debts. I desperately wanted my ex to get in touch with me even though as I had stated, it had been 7 years with no contact. I hated my job so much that I didn’t want to be there anymore but felt obligated to stay. My boss was so nice and they had put so much training and work into me for 2 years. I felt ‘stuck’.

One day, I got so tired of worrying and asking and longing that I basically gave up. I thought ‘That’s enough,  I’m done’. It was from that moment that I honestly stopped with the crazy thoughts and stress.

Then the weirdest thing happened. Everything I asked for happened. This is the complete truth!! Within 2 weeks of giving up, my ex sent me a text. It was completely out of the blue on my birthday, asking how I was!!??!! We cleared the air and have been emailing each other regularly and we began slowly dating again. He apologized for everything and the passion and attraction is still there. He even admitted to not being able to forget me. He tried but he couldn’t. I am really excited about our future together because things seem to be getting better as each day passes. Also, I get so much dejavu as he says and does so many things that I had dreamed about, weird!!

In regards to work, I was set up by a jealous colleague and I was forced to take a redundancy. Ironically, my payout was $30K!!??!! I couldn’t believe it. I also left on positive terms with my boss. I learnt that I should have stated that I wanted that money but wanted a better job to go with it!!  I’m not complaining as it now allows me to finally start my own business since I was very tired of working for other people.

So basically, I received everything I wanted once I let go.

I stopped worrying and stressing. Also, when something ‘terrible’ happened, I would look for the positive and would thank the Universe. Then something positive seems to come!! I thanked the employee who set me up as I now have the money I wanted and I no longer have to go to a job that I hate. I now have time to rest and focus on my new business. The more grateful I am, the more I receive. That is the key!!!

Let go!!!!! And watch your life blossom into the life you have lived in your dreams. Also remember, when it looks like things are going wrong, just know that the Universe is moving things around to give you what you want! Be grateful and then you will receive more to be grateful for!!!

I’m so excited about my life and feel so much joy and happiness each day! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!"
  

So, if it was possible for that couple to go back after 7 years, I don't think pushing limits for our puny cases is worth it.

Also, learn from it. As soon as she let go of the obsession and the desperation, things started to happen. Trust the process and stop overthinking, stressing, fearing and trying to make it happen. 

Wow! That's just an amazing story.
I my self, went to my therapist this monday and stated "I can't do this anymore. I want to get on with my life"
I am so sick and tired of being anxious and stressed out because of my POI.
So I've decided to let her go. I haven't done any of my usual daily PW, meditation or visualizations.
I still wish for her to get back to me, but I'm at the point where it no longer matter.
I just want to be happy and in a loving relationship.
But it's hard to let her go. Damn, it's hard to let the girl of your Dreams go. The One where you finally found peace and happiness, and for the first time ever, wanted to build a future with another person.
Maybe the universe will bring us back together some day. Maybe I will find someone else.

Hi Lj,

That seems like a good start. I have been trying to not get affected by external circumstances. It's not easy to do when you want instant results but if this person means a lot then its worth it. Good luck

Lj wrote:

I Know I can manifest my POI back. I just Don't want to obsess about it 😊
If it happens, it happens 👌