You just have to keep up hope. You probably still have some negative vibes and you need to focus on the positive. Try focusing on the end goal in your visualizations not the how you will get there. Good luck!

Lolo wrote:

Hey, you probably have some mixed vibes, so, even if you were able to bring him back into your life, he's now telling you the stuff you were fearing to hear. 

It doesn't matter, it's never too late, it's never impossible. Focus on what you want. For how you're talking, I bet you're having imaginary arguments with your lover in your head. Don't do it. 

Forgive the past and let it go. You're getting something new. 

And please, please don't think you're the situation is hopeless. I've read worst cases that ended happily for the one trying to change his reality. 

But I get you perceive this other person as a problem. You know what you can do? Say thanks to the problem. Launch gratitude to a problem and it disappears. How? Well, add this mantra to your life: thanks, third person, because you're just another step for my lover to come back to me. Write that in a journal as an affirmation until you believe it. And then, convince yourself that your man loves only you.

You know, reality doesn't mean anything. The only thing that's real is what you believe. And what do you believe in? Change your beliefs so they work in favor of what you want. 

Or something like it. Everything you're a lover is doing are just steps to come back to you. Let him take his journey. 

Thanks so much! I will defiantly be working on this. I have noticed that I haven't been reliving old arguments but reliving new ones and I will now be aware of when I do this.