Tell me one thing, why would you want to be with a person who clearly says he does not want to be with you? If you loved him, you wouldn't be 'needing' him.
And right now, I think you should break all contact with him and focus on yourself. Do things that make you happy and see how he comes running back to you.
Good luck.

dancerinthedark wrote:

Thanks so much for replying! I guess i just wished we had an opportunity to give things a shot. I've dated other guys even after things ended last year, but he never really left my mind much, and seeing him again just reminds me how much I still feel for him.

Is working on myself all that's needed for him to come back? Should I continue with the visualizations too? Having this happen while I'm still new to LOA is disheartening, sometimes I don't know what to believe in/what I'm doing when reality seems so different. ):

All you gotta believe in is yourself. And if you feel good when you are doing the visualisation then sure, continue. But stop when it starts feeling like a chore. Don't do these things to get him back. Do them only if they make you feel happy.
Yes, making yourself happy is all that is really needed.

Bright Sparks wrote:

Hi! I fell that too! Loving somebody who seems not to care is stressful. Just be strong to move on and be positive with everything.  Life is not perfect but it is important how we deal the challenges we encounter.  Get on with life and just let it flow.

Thanks for the kind words of encouragement! it's still a bit of a struggle to shake off those negative feelings but I'm working on it! Hoping that things will take a turn real soon ☺
 

Scarlet Angel wrote:

Hi.. i actually didn't read your post because i know what happened before does not have an my relationship with what's going to happen.
There is one simple thing. If you have a desire, there is a reason for it. It can be fulfilled otherwise you wouldn't have that desire. So simply be happy and send love and leave all to the universe.

Wow, thank you!! Your message has helped to give me much faith. I don't know how it will happen or when, but I'm now willing to hand this over and trust in the universe to do for me what I can't for myself. And that all will be fine regardless. (: