Okay I keep trying to avoid contact with my ex and he keeps contacting me every day,  Breaking my focus from what I need to focus on to bring us back to the way he and I were before.  So anyways I have a Ex and also my Child's Father we broke up in March. And, been having really bad times with communication there are times were when I allow him to contact me first, he at times comes off negative and saying bad things to me.  And, when we first met he was very nice and wasn't that bad of a person to be around.  But, after hearing how he really was from how his family and friends told me I should stay away from him.  He's been on drugs and off and plus stole from his friends and family.  He's got a record, he has laid hands on me in the past.  He was making a turn around last September then went down hill afterwards and was easier to speak to then.  But, Long story short we met in middle school and reconnected in 2013 after I had a bad break up.  He was my biggest crush ever.  But, I really want things to go back to the way it was before he started being negative and mean.  And, for things to progress.  What do you suggest I do?  He keeps seeming like he wants to be in the picture still and won't go anywhere but, I need help with a quick turn around.  If Anyone is in my type or was in my type of situation please let me know.  TYTY

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