Try not to overanalyze it man, I think that's one of your biggest problems

Suzy wrote:

I agree with PrettyFlamingo....it's odd that she sent that message. I also agree that shouldn't reply.

I think she's trying to see if he's still into her the way he used to be.

And yeah, do not reply. She'll probably try to talk to you again.

YesIWILL wrote:

HappyManifesting wrote:

Suzy wrote:

I agree with PrettyFlamingo....it's odd that she sent that message. I also agree that shouldn't reply.

I think she's trying to see if he's still into her the way he used to be.

And yeah, do not reply. She'll probably try to talk to you again.

Thanks guys...

And idk why she would try to see that. She's very much aware I am. - and I doubt she will. Seemed like a 1-time thing

You have to get out of this mindset man.   Remember. Thoughts create our reality.   You tend to think the most negative with situations with her

Remember. When you got the impossible week off of work?    Remember when you got your apartment?

You might not have had the most positive thoughts about those things.   But you also didn't seem to be negative about it either

Come on man, you got this

I'm not sure what other advice I can give you right now apart from advice from a LOA standpoint since what can be said has already been said. 

Don't analyse the text, in fact, I believe you should just delete it and not reply to it. Does that text serve you? Does it make you feel good? Obviously not so just delete it and you don't have to pay any attention to it.

Thoughts become things and every time you think something negative about her that will manifest. Being blocked on social media isn't the end of the world, I've been blocked so many times by people for no reason I can think of but I'm still here. 

You really need to start focusing on yourself. Not focusing on counting days, not wondering who she is with, not wondering what she's doing, don't worry about being blocked. You need to start taking care of yourself. 

One thing that has helped me deal with resistance lately is making peace with it and the worst case scenario. What;s the worst that can happen? She won't come back? Sure, that doesn't feel good but you have lived without her before and you can again. You worry you won't find someone you'll love or love you again? There's plenty of people who dream of finding a person like you. 




Here's a  Bentinho Massaro I was just listening to, I recommend you sit and listen to this, he's right on the mark with what he says here. 

Avaelle wrote:

If she didn't care, she wouldn't have texted you.

Hear hear!