So she texted me, "no hard feelings honestly! (about FB) it'll help you get past things quicker hopefully!..don't worry you got this

PS. this text doesnt change anything so don't think of this in anyway other than just a reply once

Take care"


:'(

Dan2015 wrote:

Please use this time to get your mindset better. I understand it's hard, especially since you have no support system in person

But at this point. You have no other choice, you really need to start being happy without her. I mean, you can still get her in the future. You just have to build your vibration to match


Right now it looks bad. I don't know if you're a sports fan or not. But this would be like if a team went on a 10 game losing streak in the beginning and middle of the season Just because they're having a bad drought. Doesn't mean they can't win the championship in the end

Right Now you're on a losing streak. And if you correct things, you can win the championship(getting her back)

You really just need to focus on yourself. I know you love yourself, but begin to love yourself even more. Put you over everyone.

I really want you to get back on track. I really hope you aren't on this forum a year or two from now, wondering if she's coming back and still in this negative mindset


You have a choice. Stay in this mindset. And never get her back, stay miserable forever. Or start building yourself back up and a lot of girls(including her) will want you, and you'll have your pick


The choice is yours. I honestly don't know how much more we can help/say. I honestly think everyone has said all they can(which explains the lack of replies here lately)

You need to start doing this.

I know. Thank you so much. I'm trying SO freaking hard to see this as a positive. Just seeing that text made my gut drop, and seeing that she really doesn't care, still... I can't stay positive. I'm trying SO hard. SO SO hard.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

So she texted me, "no hard feelings honestly! (about FB) it'll help you get past things quicker hopefully!..don't worry you got this

PS. this text doesnt change anything so don't think of this in anyway other than just a reply once

Take care"


:'(

How very bizarre to send that.

Yeah

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you are thinking of replying to that text, please

DON'T

Don't even think about it. Seriously, Don't reply. She will then wonder what is happening.

What the hell does "you got this" mean in this context? 

I think it's just a sympathy text, as she knows how badly I've been hurting (pretty ******* badly doesn't even begin to describe it, and she knows that...)


Just hoping she'll reach out to me again... That text really hurt...
 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Do you see anything of her in general around where you live, or do you have mutual friends?

Not at all, and not anymore :/

I mean, she's Indian, and I see "India" or "Indian" a lot, take them as 'signs', but physically? Nothing at all :/

And clearly she wants none of me in her life at all.

Last edited by YesIWILL (5/24/2017 5:39 pm)