I''m gonna try and help you.

You may look at the Law of attraction as a four part process:

1) Ask. You only have to ask once. Visualizing and writing is just to affirm this image in your mind so you make it real for your subconscious mind. The more real it seems to you, the more likely it'll happen.
2) Feel. As you ask and visualize, you must feel as you would feel is you'd live that situation.

You can for example write your ideal situation on a notebook, feel elated because it's real in your mind, and then visualize it and feel it

3) Believing. You need to believe and have no doubts that what you're asking is gonna happen to you. It means that you must also get rid of your limiting beliefs, whatever repeated negative image or thought you hold of yourself. After a breakup, most people feel "unworthy", "undeserving", "unloveable", and so on.

4) Recieve

Recieving means either letting go or living in the end.

Letting go is about moving on. You just forget about your thing all together becasue there's nothing else to do. You already made your desire real in your mind, so there's nothing else you need to do.
Or living, in the end, means keeping your desire with you but with no negative feelings or thoughts about it. Just living as if you already have it, which means feeling as you would feel if your person were with you. Relaxed...elated...joyful...in love with live...as the king of the world...
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A 25 day process like Isles' book will make you feel better and better each day, will make you believe it's more real each day you visualize. As you're on the challenge, do as Veronica says, visualize and go about your day as you would normally do.

And, after you finish your 25 day challenge, givi it a rest and focus on other things, other goals, other stuff. 

On your current situation, I would recommend you to do the following
1) Stop obsessing about what you're not getting from your partner and start being grateful about what you do
Each morning, you can write a list of 10 things you feel grateful for your parter. "Name", I'm grateful for.
...
2) Visualize every once in a while you and you're partner being very happy, saying lovely things to each other, talking all day. 

3) Write affirmations each night saying stuff like "I love how he and I are talking so much" "I love how are love grows stronger and stronger each day". Write a single affirmation 10 or 15 times

I recommend these techniques in hopes it would make you feel better. If not, don't listen to me.

In the meantime, just asume that there's no problem between you two and think about him with love instead of fear and lack. It may be hard, but give it a try. Each day it will be easier

 

I think all the answers are in the post in response to your original one.

Hi Blossom1, I totally understand where you're coming from. And we all ask that to our better halfs. The word commitment for some may be the the biggest word they knew or they might not know. But, in your case it's really hard to be with someone who's emotionally not ready to take in a new milestone of his life. But, know this, try to think and radiate that positive energy and believe me everything will follow. 

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This is wrong with us women, we think negative all the time and it really affects not just our love life but, in all ways of our living. What if we disregard our wrong beliefs and change it to affirmations. It may actually work, as it attracts all the positive things we've been missing. I really suggest you also read these courses -- attached below. It changed my perspective in life, the way things are to my mind to the way things are supposed to be. Cause really, we can control everything. With the help of this, we can definitely arise above these hesitations and doubts. God Bless you, dear. And I hope and pray that things will get better, I know it will. 

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