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Firstly, i made the decision to completely stay off of the relationship topic. Stopped worrying and thinking of who I wanted, stopped thinking of relationships all together and let it go. I focused upon my happiness and made it my upmost priority to be happy, always! I believe this was and is very very important. When you focus on being happy, (there are many reasons in this world to be happy, such as appreciating others or yourself or cats or just being thankful to be alive.) every subject of your life must raise to your new vibrations and fix themselves (wether or not you think about them). I know many find it counterproductive to not think of what they want but truly, you only ever have to ask once. The moment life has caused you to ask, it is vibrationally done and created. Now you must allow it by feeling good in any way you can! And that could literally be by only thinking of your favorite animal or food! Must of us are here due to wanting a relationship, showing that we do not (yet) have the one we desire which reveals that we have resistance upon this subject, therefore to get off the subject completely and let that resistance subside is our best work!
Okay, so now to what has occurred. I really wanted my ex, was thinking of him NON STOP for months. It took a little while for me to subside the momentum of this subject and get off this subject completely. I eventually decided and stated to the universe " I know that my boyfriend WILL come back, and if not, I will get someone even better." I then let it go. I know that may sound counterintuitive, but as Abraham says, "when you're okay with your desire not coming, is when it comes." Because you prove unconditional alignment in that state and know that no matter what you WILL be happpy, and therefore what you want (that person) must come. My class went on a trip this Monday. There were plenty of empty seats and I was sitting alone and this boy came up to me asking to sit with me (I've seen him around but never have spoken to him.) and I said sure. He then began talking and at first it was small chat, but we quickly vibed very well together. We had so much in common, it was strange, it was like talking to someone I had known for years but had only truly met that day. We both had went through a very very similar past relstionship, and I mean very similar, Like very small details of things that occurred or the triats of the person we dated that were EXACT. We also both love Buddha quotes haha, and it was just so strange but I loved it. It was true synchronization. We spoke for a couple hours as the ride was long, and I could write a huge list on all of the similarities we have. One thing I had always desired was to receive roses or flowers and when speaking to him he even mentioned how often he got them for his ex but that she didn't like them and such, but I thought it was so sweet. He is everything and more than I thought I had wanted in a person. When we got to the destination my friend who sat across from us asked me "who is that?" And I said his name and mentioned that it was the first time I've ever spoken to him and she replied with "What? You guys looked like best friends, you guys were talking so much I thought you had known him for years." At the end of the day he asked for my number, an we've been messaging ever since. He also asked me to got a restraints with him! I completely forgot about my ex. Then today, my ex (his locker is beside mine) spoke to me. For the first time in forever. It was a nice conversation and he was very sweet and held the door for me. As well, at the end of the day he emptied his bag and a present I bought him was in there and he was using it, and attached to it was the letter I had written him which he still kept and happens to have which was a huge shock to me. He even began to read it as I was getting ready to leave and when I walked away to catch my bus I looked back and he was staring at me!!
Life is magical and amazing and lovely and so are you! You are all of these things as well! Please love yourselves and know that all is well and don't worry because the universe will bring you everything and more that you desire! You will even begin to see other areas of your life become more magical than ever. For example, I went from 60's last year to 90's!!! In every subject! I have so many new lovely friends and have had so many amazing opportunities just in the past few months! If I can do it, anyone can do it! And it is truly so easy. Just feel good. Do anything and everything to make you feel exstatic about life.
Last edited by Happyhappy (5/17/2017 6:32 pm)
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(there are many reasons in this world to be happy, such as appreciating others or yourself or cats or just being thankful to be alive.)
Definitely cats!Β
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
(there are many reasons in this world to be happy, such as appreciating others or yourself or cats or just being thankful to be alive.)
Definitely cats!Β
Cats are the best!!
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Congratulations and thank you for sharing your experienceΒ
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
(there are many reasons in this world to be happy, such as appreciating others or yourself or cats or just being thankful to be alive.)
Definitely cats!Β
Hahaha, yes!! They're the cutest ever π»
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Kavik wrote:
Congratulations and thank you for sharing your experienceΒ
Thank you so much!!! Hope you have a lovely day filled with light and love and infinite happiness!! Xx
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UPDATE: I had written that I wanted to receive a message from my exs sister and family, as we used to be really close. We have still been messaging for a while but the last week they hadn't, within an hour his sister messaged me with a really sweet message. That same night my ex also messages me, for the first time in months, and followed me again on Instagram and twitter. Wow. It truly does come when you let it go! Relax, let go the universe has got you all!
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Happyhappy wrote:
UPDATE: I had written that I wanted to receive a message from my exs sister and family, as we used to be really close. We have still been messaging for a while but the last week they hadn't, within an hour his sister messaged me with a really sweet message. That same night my ex also messages me, for the first time in months, and followed me again on Instagram and twitter. Wow. It truly does come when you let it go! Relax, let go the universe has got you all!
I'm so happy for you! Congratulations! How's it going so far? I'm sure it's amazing Β