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it's been two weeks after the breakup. i want him back from the right reasons, im happy, im in love with myself again, and fullfiled with my life. im not crying over him, i gained full control on my feelings, and i started this LOA process almost a week ago. despite it all, i dont seem to see any progress in him coming back, even though im open to meet another guy, even though i REALLY love him. is it too soon to see results? today, i saw a white butterfly in front of me. and when i was thinking about him, it was 11:11. more than that, it seems like everything has something to do with him. the people i meet, the songs on the radio. i feel a bit confused.
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Have a read of this above.
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Hey, friend
I'm gonna say something that no Ex-Back Loa coach says, and I think is a very convenient advice:
BEFORE bringing someone back into your life with the powers you were born with, you should get you back. When we "lose" someone, we lost ourselves first, and from our inner world or from our relationship with ourselves comes everything else.
Yes, it seems that you have seen some very nice songs, but I can tell you're still attached because you feel confused and anxious about not seeing results.
What you need to do instead is drop the ex-back process and focus on yourself for months. Do self-love meditation every day, write positive affirmations about yourself every day, write your goals on paper, write what you want for a relationship, write the good things about yourself, write what you have to offer to someone else, write a thousand times "I AM worth it", "I AM love" "I AM Lovable" "I AM Loved"
Heal and clear up your limiting beliefs, your pain, your anxiety and your doubts. The more self-love you have, the easier it will be to trust in your capacity to shape your reality.
After that, you can restart LOA for your partner and you'll be in a much better position. Unattached, relaxed, happy. But, as many people have experienced already if you manage to let go of your old relationship and really find your self-love, your partner will come back on its own.
Cheer up, LOA will change your life in much bigger ways than giving you a person.
Feel free to ask me further questions or ask me for exercises to heal and clearing limiting beliefs.
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I totally agree. thank you.
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Lolo wrote:
Hey, friend
I'm gonna say something that no Ex-Back Loa coach says, and I think is a very convenient advice:
BEFORE bringing someone back into your life with the powers you were born with, you should get you back. When we "lose" someone, we lost ourselves first, and from our inner world or from our relationship with ourselves comes everything else.
Yes, it seems that you have seen some very nice songs, but I can tell you're still attached because you feel confused and anxious about not seeing results.
What you need to do instead is drop the ex-back process and focus on yourself for months. Do self-love meditation every day, write positive affirmations about yourself every day, write your goals on paper, write what you want for a relationship, write the good things about yourself, write what you have to offer to someone else, write a thousand times "I AM worth it", "I AM love" "I AM Lovable" "I AM Loved"
Heal and clear up your limiting beliefs, your pain, your anxiety and your doubts. The more self-love you have, the easier it will be to trust in your capacity to shape your reality.
After that, you can restart LOA for your partner and you'll be in a much better position. Unattached, relaxed, happy. But, as many people have experienced already if you manage to let go of your old relationship and really find your self-love, your partner will come back on its own.
Cheer up, LOA will change your life in much bigger ways than giving you a person.
Feel free to ask me further questions or ask me for exercises to heal and clearing limiting beliefs.
You are right about finding yourself but you are wrong about Loa coaches all of them including Veronica tell people that to attract someone specific wont work unless we fix our selves first.
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Thats funny, i did manifested an ex. But not the right one. Lol
What should i do? Keep doing it? What does it even mean? Mine is stubborn?
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You're right, creator, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to insult anyone.
Nillie, that's up to you. Do you feel good and happy while trying to attract this person into your life? Then keep going. if not, focus on yourself for a while.
A person being stubborn is a circumstance, nothing more. Consider that everyone reacts to you according to your inner world, so him being stubborn is because you're allowing that.
Stop focusing on that particular treat, and imagine him just as you would like him to be.
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I haven't manifested my poi back or any other ex'es.
I seem to have manifested someone else though.
2 weeks ago I met a girl through some friends of mine at a birthday.
I still have a desire to get my poi back, but I also developed some interest and feelings for this other girl.
And she's really into me too. The thing is, she's 16 years younger than me at the age of 21.
So I don't know if I should pursue this Or keep focused on my poi?
I mean, when you're 21 you are in a totally different phase of your life. You are not ready to settle down.
And my poi who is 33 already have a daughter of 4,5 years old. So she's ready to settle down.
But she's with this other guy now and seemingly not into me.
So I shouldn't go and wait around for her, right?
I wanna see where it could go with the new girl, but what if I blow my chances with my poi in the process?
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Hi, i have an update. things are starting to happen. he's trying to get my attention on social media, and he's friends says that he is depressed. I think the universe tries to rearrange things
I TRUST THE PROCESS.