You don't need a miracle. You need to give up this crazy **** and focus on yourself. That's the only thing you can do, if you don't enjoy suffering. If you enjoy it, keep doing what you are doing.

I never said that you should give up on her, I said you should give up what you are doing (which obviously doesn't work, else she hadn't broken up with you in the first place). But if you would do a little research, you would see that people who obsess about their person never get them back. So why not learning from their experience instead of repeating the same crap they did? I wish I had done that in the beginning. Had been definitely the best for me.

And to answer all your other questions: "Circumstances don't matter, only state of being matters" as Bashar puts it. But it isn't enough to give your attention to the first part of the statement. You have to be willing to change yourself, else nothing will happen.

I already gave you all the advice you need. I don't see where you applied any of this - doesn't really motivate to give you more nice and helpful advice, you know? Do you think it serves you, when you ask the same questions over and over again until people tell you what you want to hear? Yeah, I can do that too: "Just sit and wait, she will come around for sure. Maybe now you feel like crap, but when she is back, you will feel so much better". Does such advice help? NO, of course not, because it's nonsense - doesn't work that way. Face it: If you aren't willing you change, if you aren't willing to focus on yourself FOR yourself and not in order to get her back, if you aren't willing to stop complaining and analysing, nothing will bring her back and you will be miserable until you decide to drop her and focus on you and THEN you give her a chance to come back. The longer you take to accept that, the harder it gets and the longer it takes. Over and out.