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I have a question about visualization and acting. If you act as if you are already dating a person, will the universe in time, make that a reality? Visualizing each day as if you are already together and acting like it is real. Or will seem as if you are not "letting go?"
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It does not mean you should pretend you're with your desired person all the time, although you can do it if it makes you happier.
Make yourself this question: how would you feel if you had your person right now?
Calmed? Peaceful? Relaxed? Relieved? Joyful?
Really explore those feelings and realize those feelings come from within you, not from anyone else or any outside experience.Β
Then, incorporate those feelings into your everyday life and just feel elated, excited. That's what it means to "act as if"
You can visualize each day if it makes you happy, but don't do it trying to make something happen becasuse it will make you obsses over it.Β
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What Lolo said is spot on.
So I'll just add letting go doesn't necessarily mean let go of your desire, it's pretty much letting go of the need to control it. Just let go of how's, the why's and the when's and leave it to god/source/the universe whatever your preferred entity is here.Β