They have a lot of affirmations on youtube plus Subliminal messages that you can meditate with and visualize that she unblocked you one day and is communicating with you.  And feel the happiness of this while you are doing so.  Your happy energy will help guide you along the way.   Also i don't know why some of these posts are getting passed by and not replied to.  Sorry for this inconvenience.  I think others need to step in and help others out.  We are here to get ex's back and help get our lives back to happier and fuller. 

I'll just leave this here. 

AbhijeetB7k wrote:

Thank you for your support and positive energy. So finally she contacted me and we decided to take baby steps. I told her to be in the present rather than rushing to the future. Though she has agreed to do it but there are times she gets these withdrawal symptoms from the past mistakes. I've been practicing removing the negative blockages from my end through energy transfer and writing affirmations in red ink. I know it will work. I wanted to ask are obstacles a sign to tell us what we need to work upon to manifest our desires. Because I have to do some convincing to make her hold steady so I know the efforts will pay off when the time is right. A bit more advice in my situation I would be really happy. I feel it's working and it will work because I have faith.

Yes, obstacles are a sign that your manifestation is near. They help you release whatever resistance is left.

AbhijeetB7k wrote:

May I get some more assistance to lower down the resistance from her I know that the swaying in her mood will be there for a while. I need some assistance to overcome this issue, she does feel good when she is with me and feels the comfort and love just that when she is away and negative situations are around her she gets wobbly. She mentioned she is scared that she would have trust and loyalty issues. I need assistance in resolving this matter. I know I have to slowly convince her and work on both of us, I feel the negative block removal exercises are helping and after this I'll be focusing on my energy healing and Chakra balance to increase my manifesting power.

Why would you try and work on her resistance or anything? And how can you?
The only person you can control is yourself. And her resistance is a projection of your thoughts and resistance. You may feel you don't have any but the fact that she feels insecure shows that you still have some beliefs to change. Do that instead of trying to change her beliefs, that won't help.
Also, try Agnes' meditations on projecting your thoughts and self love.

AbhijeetB7k wrote:

Can I get a few links to the meditation I am really grateful for the help. I will work on it

https://youtu.be/TSzCfGtWqBs

https://youtu.be/CdgPUjdRg1s

https://youtu.be/A96OI4b8sFY

The last one is Dr. Wayne's I AM affirmations. It's lovely. Do give it a shot.