Dan2015 wrote:

From what I've learned about loa.   It's what we believe.     So if we believe they won't come back, then they won't come back

Thanks man

I'll be honest, I took a break from the forum but still lurked to read your podts. I'm glad you're getting the help you need. At this time, I wouldn't bother using her technique as it'll just backfire on your own personal progress, which should be your priority first and foremost. This technique isn't intended to be some form of witchcraft to force someone to love you, but it's to ensure that your Universal mind stays connected to a specific target. Right now, you need to cut all strings, work on yourself and then when you're ready the technique will just start happening naturally.

As for "they don't always come back" I agree with Dan, it's what you want to believe. Right now, the fact that you pull up that line from Lanie, out of the 100s she's posted saying the contrary, suggests to me that that line gravitated the most to you, meaning that's what you believe right now.

Right now, go with the mindset of me first and if she comes back great, but be at a point where it doesn't even matter if she comes back or not. I know it's hard to detach because it feels like giving up initially, but trust me, with the passage of time it feels empowering

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

mugginess wrote:

I'll be honest, I took a break from the forum but still lurked to read your podts. I'm glad you're getting the help you need. At this time, I wouldn't bother using her technique as it'll just backfire on your own personal progress, which should be your priority first and foremost. This technique isn't intended to be some form of witchcraft to force someone to love you, but it's to ensure that your Universal mind stays connected to a specific target. Right now, you need to cut all strings, work on yourself and then when you're ready the technique will just start happening naturally.

As for "they don't always come back" I agree with Dan, it's what you want to believe. Right now, the fact that you pull up that line from Lanie, out of the 100s she's posted saying the contrary, suggests to me that that line gravitated the most to you, meaning that's what you believe right now.

Right now, go with the mindset of me first and if she comes back great, but be at a point where it doesn't even matter if she comes back or not. I know it's hard to detach because it feels like giving up initially, but trust me, with the passage of time it feels empowering

I agree with this, I've lurked Lanie's forum and read 3 of her books and for the most part I've seen her say it works, also read success stories on her forum and obviously her own success story. As someone who's played with her techniques on a guy in my life, I can say it works. 
 

 
TBH, I don't really use her technique as she says. I prefer just to visualize rather than follow steps. However, I've tweaked it more to send messages of me saying things to anyone, and often I'll hear back from them within a day or two. It's kind of cool. My sister does Lanie's technique regular in her bf and it keeps him in place for sure. So it does work!

Lanie says the technique itself ALWAYS works. She doesn't say anywhere that I've read that it always gets the person back. Your thoughts are ingrained in her head every time, but the visualizations have to come from a pure loving heart. How they feel about those thoughts is another story...

I once read something at the start of my journey that hit me hard. Have you ever had someone obsess over you? It's not a welcoming and loving feeling. It makes you feel repulsed. It's a bad energy and makes the person you're obsessing over feel the bad energy. That's why you MUST get into a good mindset first.