I want to manifest my ex back into my life as my boyfriend. I watched the video and I have been visualizing daily, telling myself affirmations and setting intentions. we don't live in the same city and the other day I walked into a building and he was in the lobby... I think we were both shocked to see each other, but he turned and walked away when he saw me. I'm not sure what to make of this. I am trying to tell myself that the universe was showing me that he is there for me to have, but I don't understand his reaction. How do I manifest him to be communicating with me, with a desire to become a couple again?

@Cherished - do you have any suggestions?  You seem to always have great tips!

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kizikay wrote:

Bellecat wrote:

TheWinner wrote:

sorry, but what do you mean? did i miss something? are you talking about your guy? #confused

 

If you get your ex back how do you deal with the matter of who you slept with when you were not together.
A friend had to have the talk with her husband when she got him back.

If it bothers you, then you should sort it out for yourself first. If you keep fearing it, you will attract this talk sooner or later. 
From psychological point of view most men are not that bothered who you slept with if you weren't together at that time. Especially if he was with someone else as well, so unless it was his brother or best friend, i wouldn't worry about it at all  
Question is, if you want to get back together with him, why would you settle for other men you don't really want? Just something to thinnk about...

I never said I wanted him back. Lol
It's called helping you all

Last edited by Bellecat (10/28/2015 7:32 pm)

+1 Cherished

@barbidoll. Thanks for the response. I am not sure what doubts I have. I still feel a huge connection between he and I. I am letting him reach out to me and trust that he realizes now that I belong in his life. I am trying to let go and detach from the outcome. I guess a fear is detaching and not having him... If that makes sense. Has anyone had success with this challenge?