Aisha wrote:

Thank you Sanshi, so I got back to her and she asked if she can get someone who's like the guy and I said of course because I've experienced that myself but she's worried she might not feel the same way or get the same vibe as the kpop guy

Then her job is to let go of that worry to be able to let it in. I assume that if you had told her that she can have him, she had worried about that she won't get him or how long it takes. So, she would always find a reason to worry, wouldn't she? And that's what I meant by the training aspects of LoA. We are trained to worry about everything and we have to unlearn that to become effective creators.
 

Aisha wrote:

I mean it's natural to have worries here and there but you're right, though it's hard since people are so accustomed to how society works.

Just because everyone does it doesn't mean it's natural. Have you ever seen a young child worry about anything? They fall down, they cry for a minute and then they watch a bird in absolute awe. They don't say "This was terrible. Now I am so worried that it will happen again to me!". It's not natural to deprive ourselves of our own well-being.
 

Sanshi wrote:

Aisha wrote:

I mean it's natural to have worries here and there but you're right, though it's hard since people are so accustomed to how society works.

Just because everyone does it doesn't mean it's natural. Have you ever seen a young child worry about anything? They fall down, they cry for a minute and then they watch a bird in absolute awe. They don't say "This was terrible. Now I am so worried that it will happen again to me!". It's not natural to deprive ourselves of our own well-being.
 

I agree but a child isn't exposed to society and it's quite hard to regain that mentality depending on the person

Aisha wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Aisha wrote:

I mean it's natural to have worries here and there but you're right, though it's hard since people are so accustomed to how society works.

Just because everyone does it doesn't mean it's natural. Have you ever seen a young child worry about anything? They fall down, they cry for a minute and then they watch a bird in absolute awe. They don't say "This was terrible. Now I am so worried that it will happen again to me!". It's not natural to deprive ourselves of our own well-being.
 

I agree but a child isn't exposed to society and it's quite hard to regain that mentality depending on the person

It's your choice which story you want to tell. I personally am done with arguing for my limitations.