1 - KaliShiva9
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On and off...
Hey guys, so I don't know what to do an I'm super stuck on this one, my vibration won't get up and I'm getting desesperated.
So, my ex and I broke up, and I had the most beautiful journey of self discovery. Everyday was exciting, and the desire of becoming better and getting surprised by the universe made my get up from bed. And obviously this brought my ex back! In the most perfect way with a lot of details that you wouldn't believe.
BUT I don't know what happened. Maybe it was the feeling of getting the my goal and letting all go. My head started to over think and stopped to do the things that I did before, I felt that everything was already worked out. And so my ex told me that there was no way that we were going to get back together, that we were really different. I can't get this words out of my mind, and starting to belive them. 
But I've noticed that the two times he has come to my life, I was vibrating super high and I was in a really good place, so this means something right?
I can't do this on and off thing any more. Do you belive this has a solution using LOA? Can I really build the perfect relationship? It hurts to doubt of my truth now. What doyou think?
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: On and off...
I don't understand, you said you got back together but then you say you didn't? What do you mean by it brought your ex back?
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Avaelle
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I think you should keep on with the self discovery. But instead of just thinking of it as a tactic to get someone, think of it as a change you'll need to maintain.
The Universe is your playground.
- KaliShiva9
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Re: On and off...
Pretty Flamingo: yes, he came back and we had 3 happy months together but two weeks ago he said he doesn't want to be with me. All my previous work with myself brought him back, but I stopped and he is going away again.
Avaelle: you are totally right. I can't leave my happiness behind. I'm starting with the improvement again today.
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Thread Starter- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: On and off...
KaliShiva9 wrote:
Pretty Flamingo: yes, he came back and we had 3 happy months together but two weeks ago he said he doesn't want to be with me. All my previous work with myself brought him back, but I stopped and he is going away again.
Avaelle: you are totally right. I can't leave my happiness behind. I'm starting with the improvement again today.
That makes sense now. I agree with Avaelle also.
What happened to make him come to that decision?
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- KaliShiva9
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Re: On and off...
yes, I'm getting back on my feet again.
Well, he felt insecure, and all the things that he said to me the last time were here again.
I believe that these are all my fears, and I played them in my mind until they came true again. I thought I healed everything but apparently not because they affected me again 
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Thread Starter- jellyb
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Re: On and off...
It will be okay. You've manifested him before, and you can do it again--and now you have plenty of proof that it works, and that it works the way you want when you're feeling confident! Just remember how you felt when you were able to manifest him before (I know, easier said than done). And now you have more experience on how you've already healed, and the ways you still need to heal. It will be okay. 
- holistichealing
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yes, I'm getting back on my feet again.
Well, he felt insecure, and all the things that he said to me the last time were here again.
I believe that these are all my fears, and I played them in my mind until they came true again. I thought I healed everything but apparently not because they affected me again
You should try to build a neutral state of mind. It helps you reflect without attachment and helps with the healing process. Of course, you can still think positive, neutral just means being detached from emotions and trusting your inner self (the universe) to bring all that you desire.
A King only bows down to his Queen.
- Sanshi
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It will be okay.
It has to be okay before he is back, else nothing will be okay.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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