I remember that there is a video on Veronicas channel where she tells about a friend of her that loved Channing Tatum and they ended up meeting. Maybe that one can help you!

Sanshi the rescue unicorn where are youuu?!? 🦄🦄

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Aisha wrote:

Sanshi the rescue unicorn where are youuu?!? 🦄🦄

In the Aikido dojo to become a better rescue unicorn... And Aikido is a great place to start here, because I love analogies. Lets say she saw an Aikido demonstration for the first time in her life and now her strongest desire is to become an Aikido black belt. What would you tell her/what would she already know? She would know that she wouldn't accomplish that desire tomorrow. She would also know that her success depends mostly on how much time and effort she puts in. It's really the same thing with LoA. Right now, (I assume that) she has no control over her thoughts, observes her surroundings and talks about reality it all day. To hope for this kpop guy to stand with flowers in front of her house is really unrealistic. Exactly as unrealistic as to think that you can get a black belt within a day. With Aikido, it's a little more obvious. You don't just want the black belt, but you want the skills. Your body has to learn it. But it's really the same with LoA. First, you have to develop the basic stills like focusing your thoughts, recognizing when you have a negative emotion, shifting it, understanding the theory and so on. After you have reached that basic level, you have to work on your vibration regarding that specific topic. The basics would equal the muscles and fitness you have to build. The vibration regarding that topic would equal the specific Aikido skills that are different from the skills you need for Judo or Basketball. You need to make that vibrational journey. You have to learn the specific skills to reach your specific goal.

So, yes, it is possible, but the question is, if she really wants to put all that effort in and if she is ready to grasp all the concepts. With everything I know, if I were in her shoes, I wouldn't go for it. There are easier ways to get what she wants in a relationship.

So are the steps the same as getting an ex back or something? What would the specific vibration for this topic be? I want her to believe in LoA maybe if she gets some plan or steps in how to start maybe she can try and see for herself if she wants to put in the effort, and if she can't then she can just give up I guess.

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Aisha wrote:

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So are the steps the same as getting an ex back or something? What would the specific vibration for this topic be? I want her to believe in LoA maybe if she gets some plan or steps in how to start maybe she can try and see for herself if she wants to put in the effort, and if she can't then she can just give up I guess.

And how do you want to bring something across to her that you obviously don't undersand yourself (else you probably wouldn't ask that question)? LoA isn't really about getting your stuff. That's more of a side effect. That's the very reason why you don't read success stories here on a daily basis. The people don't get it. The make it about the manifestation, not about the feeling state.

It could take her years to accomplish that. She probably will obsess about that guy and it will make her more unhappy than happy. What's the point of this?

I guess I just didn't wanna break her heart in a sense but I really wasn't sure since it seems unrealistic, you can just say it's not possible because it seems like not everything is possible. I thought that too, (the whole what's the point of this)

Sanshi wrote:

Aisha wrote:

I guess I just didn't wanna break her heart in a sense but I really wasn't sure since it seems unrealistic, you can just say it's not possible because it seems like not everything is possible. I thought that too, (the whole what's the point of this)

It is possible. The question is how long would it take her to stop all resistent thought. Could be a day, could be a life time dependent on her skill level.

Thank you Sanshi, so I got back to her and she asked if she can get someone who's like the guy and I said of course because I've experienced that myself but she's worried she might not feel the same way or get the same vibe as the kpop guy