anzamyu wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

anzamyu wrote:

And also who keeps being told move on you can't force someone to love you by other loa practicers?

All those who doubt that they can attract someone back. Others reflect your vibration back to you.

So in other words don't listen to naysayers?  Cause, i try to post on my Facebook groups to send positivty and all I get back is realistic attitudes and move on and you can't do that crap.  And, I thought this is a law of attraction group.  Also, one group I was in kinda was full of batshit crazy people saying I am manifesting 10k in 2 days for something.  I mean this is bs when you get some people thinking they know how to attract stuff like very quickly.  Do you even bother posting on these groups anymore?

A lot of people have told me that stuff, move on , you can't mess with free will .
I've learned that you can't believe everything you hear , and be careful who you discuss things with .

Tumom wrote:

anzamyu wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

All those who doubt that they can attract someone back. Others reflect your vibration back to you.

So in other words don't listen to naysayers?  Cause, i try to post on my Facebook groups to send positivty and all I get back is realistic attitudes and move on and you can't do that crap.  And, I thought this is a law of attraction group.  Also, one group I was in kinda was full of batshit crazy people saying I am manifesting 10k in 2 days for something.  I mean this is bs when you get some people thinking they know how to attract stuff like very quickly.  Do you even bother posting on these groups anymore?

A lot of people have told me that stuff, move on , you can't mess with free will .
I've learned that you can't believe everything you hear , and be careful who you discuss things with .

^^ This.

Why do you even mind posting there? Ask yourself what your motives are. Is it really that you want to motivate people (who haven't ask for your motivation, when they reacted in such a way?) or is it more that you want to convince yourself and want confirmation of other people?

You always have your guidance that is leading you in the right direction. Why are you interested in the opinion of other people? Their truth doesn't have to be your truth. It's like asking someone for their prefered color and then being disappointed that they don't prefer the same color you do. It doesn't matter. They can think what they want. Think of anything, any thought, doesn't matter. You will probably always find someone who absolutely agrees with it and absolutely disagrees with it. Who cares? Important for you is what you think.

anzamyu wrote:

But, it does help to have a like minded friend or two to help us keep on track and be motivated everyday to get to our goals and desires And, sending those positive energies back and forth and watch things grow and having something to shout out to the world that things like this work.  Don't give up attitude. 

And obviously, those people aren't that kind of like minded friends.
 

anzamyu wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Tumom wrote:

A lot of people have told me that stuff, move on , you can't mess with free will .
I've learned that you can't believe everything you hear , and be careful who you discuss things with .

^^ This.

Why do you even mind posting there? Ask yourself what your motives are. Is it really that you want to motivate people (who haven't ask for your motivation, when they reacted in such a way?) or is it more that you want to convince yourself and want confirmation of other people?

You always have your guidance that is leading you in the right direction. Why are you interested in the opinion of other people? Their truth doesn't have to be your truth. It's like asking someone for their prefered color and then being disappointed that they don't prefer the same color you do. It doesn't matter. They can think what they want. Think of anything, any thought, doesn't matter. You will probably always find someone who absolutely agrees with it and absolutely disagrees with it. Who cares? Important for you is what you think.

But, it does help to have a like minded friend or two to help us keep on track and be motivated everyday to get to our goals and desires And, sending those positive energies back and forth and watch things grow and having something to shout out to the world that things like this work.  Don't give up attitude. 

Who?

anzamyu wrote:

And you see why I need new ones at least that are the same like me.  I mean don't you need like minded friends to help keep you positive?

But the point I tried to make earlier is that it is a vibrational thing. As long as you are doubtful, you will find people who make you doubt even more. Maybe it comes from a different source and not from the facebook group anymore, but unless you stop doubting, you will get confirmation of your doubt in some form.

Well, I am not after any ex anymore, I am mostly stable in my emotions and I know what they mean and how to change them. So, no, I don't. At least not to keep me positive. It's more for inspiration. I know that LoA is real, I know that most of the people think that I am nuts to believe in it (I don't care) and I know that the only reason why something doesn't work out the way I want it is my vibration. But when I was in your shoes, I was glad to have people to talk to as well. But in the end, they couldn't convince me. Confirmation did help for a moment, but I found myself asking them the same questions over and over again, already knowing the answers. That's okay and surely better than to be alone and to suffer alone. At some point, you have to make the decision to trust yourself more and just accept that this stuff is real. And then, you suddenly won't meet people who question LoA or if it is possible to get this and that. They will just disappear and you won't even notice it, because you are focused somewhere else. But till then, it's good to have someone to share thoughts, questions, manifestations and sometimes frustration (while that isn't something you should spread too much) with. I personally have a forum friend I text with for nearly a year now and another one I text for maybe a half. We have grown together and learned from each other's mistakes. I draw much benefit out of that friendships. But keep the vibrational thing in mind. They can only give you what you are already a vibrational match to.