anzamyu wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

anzamyu wrote:

Depending on how bad things were before our break up can it take a while for things to manifest into my life.  Especially since hes super stubborn?   

It needs as much time as you need to get your vibration in a non-resistant place.
 

How does that happen can you help me

There is a big misunderstanding in the LoA community. People try to make something happen. They try to change conditions and that just doesn't work. The only power you have is to control your focus. You get always real-time feedback (your feelings)about, if the direction of your focus leads you to what you want or away from it. It's really like in a video game. Your character is moving in the direction in which you look and you have this blinking point on the map, informing you where your next quest is. If you go in the complete opposite direction, the blinking gets stronger (strong negative emotions, much resistance). If you follow the point, you don't feel resistance. So the only thing you have to do is to follow your good feelings. They will lead you to your destination.

Sanshi wrote:

anzamyu wrote:

Well living with a negative toxic ***** for a mother doesn't help me much.

Well, complaining about the circumstances helps neither. I really feel you here, but you have to find a way to feel better regardless of her. Not making the conditions responsible for how you feel is the skill you have to master, if you want to be a deliberate creator.
 

Well living with my mother in not easy and it I try to be positive but, she is constantly negative and yelling.  And our daughter doesn't need that.  Grandma being negative.  But, I feel upset that he doesnt wanna get back together right away and I think its in his benefit to get back together with me cause he wouldnt be homeless and he can keep looking for work.  But, we were bound bind his hair binding spell but he probably got mad that i Had it removed.  But, he doesnt know why or understand why.  And, I tried to explain if we got married it would be put back on in a positive way.  

He did a binding spell using our hair together 3 times in the beginning stating he wanted to bind us together forever.  

And also who keeps being told move on you can't force someone to love you by other loa practicers?

Sanshi wrote:

anzamyu wrote:

And also who keeps being told move on you can't force someone to love you by other loa practicers?

All those who doubt that they can attract someone back. Others reflect your vibration back to you.

So in other words don't listen to naysayers?  Cause, i try to post on my Facebook groups to send positivty and all I get back is realistic attitudes and move on and you can't do that crap.  And, I thought this is a law of attraction group.  Also, one group I was in kinda was full of batshit crazy people saying I am manifesting 10k in 2 days for something.  I mean this is bs when you get some people thinking they know how to attract stuff like very quickly.  Do you even bother posting on these groups anymore?