1 - happygirl97
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attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
Hey guys,
You havent heard from me a long while.
in fact, i attracted a new guy in my life.
he is totally handsome, and in the beginning he completely invested into me.
he took me to wonderful trips, he called, he introduced me to his friends and family, we had great sex.
At first, he chased me.
I wasnt even sure if I really wanted him as a bf. I was happy single.
then my vibe dropped due to unhappy circumstanced and last week i even got fired. Ever since then, he stopped making plans and cancelled 2 times. Since yesterday he doesnt respond anymoew at all after 8 weeks of contact.
When i started to really like him HE pulled away.
I wonder if I should forget him or whether him pulling away is a result of my really low vibe.
I want a relarionship as I had with him.please help me what I shall do!
She believed she could, so she did.
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
Just that I get this right: He hasn't replied for one day and you feel ghosted?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Thelawoflove
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
Just find your alignment love, with alignment comes clarity. No need to worry. Relax everything will fall into place. You create your own vibe, not circumstances or people. You may be coming attached. You have to find happiness and alignment with yourself not other people, that is when they will pull away, when you find it from people and circumstances and not from within that becomes conditional. You must learn to be unconditionally happy such as you were prior to attracting him!
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- rpt.sunnymist
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
Your handsome man is yours.
He chased you by your vibes.
He will chase you again by your vibes.
Believe it.
- Thelawoflove
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
rpt.sunnymist wrote:
Your handsome man is yours.
He chased you by your vibes.
He will chase you again by your vibes.
Believe it.
Short and sweet, so little but speaks volumes, absolutely love the way you worded this. So very true!
- rpt.sunnymist
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
Your handsome man is yours.
He chased you by your vibes.
He will chase you again by your vibes.
Believe it.Short and sweet, so little but speaks volumes, absolutely love the way you worded this. So very true!
🙏🙏thanks.
She mentioned "had a great sex"
So BWD will highly effect on him.
But pw,bwd both must to do.
Only by bwd he will come to sleep & may off again.
- happygirl97
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
I feel really anxious.
Because I started loving everything abiut our relationship.
I started to CARE.
I started to love going out with him.
at first, I was really unattached. I was like "oh its fun to go out with him"
but i wasnt attached.
now, I feel like my happiness depends on that.
and I would really know how to become the person I was when/before I met him.
She believed she could, so she did.
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Thread Starter- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
You know this is what puts me right off going out with anyone! Immature behaviour from guys.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Lj
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
You know this is what puts me right off going out with anyone! Immature behaviour from guys.
Well, not just guys. I've tried this numerous times with girls too 😁
- Thelawoflove
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Re: attracted new guy and he "ghosted" me ! what now?
You know this is what puts me right off going out with anyone! Immature behaviour from guys.
But that can be changed love!!! When you're in true alignment, it's impossible for you to attract people of this sort! When you're truly loving life and happy and using the loa to your advantage, you will find ideal people, that match your frequncy! It's not them, it's you! Your vibration attracts who you're around, always.
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com