YesIWILL wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

What do you mean by "re-left"? Did you two get back together and then split up again?

No but she came back into my life after leaving. I felt that she would come back. She did but she was distant. Then she told me how she has no feelings for me, we'd argue etc, then she left again, but for some ******* reason this time I felt hopeless. And it's been a year since and... still ignores me so I know she means it and doesn't care about me

With that attitude towards the situation that will be the case. In the past I have gotten back together with someone who told me that he didn;t love me, so anything is possible if you put out the right vibration. 

Dan2015 wrote:

I'm not even 100 percent sure it's always about vibration(even though it's a huge part)   I mean I've had GREAT things happen to me when my vibe was sucky and I've also had things not go my way when I was feeling great.

The  thing that was the same in those situations was... my BELIEF in those situations.... even when my vibration sucks, if I fully believe something IS happening than it happens... if I don't have belief, it doesn't matter how good my vibe is


But of course, vibe helps as well. 

Your belief is part of your vibration. When you focus on something that you want and you think you can't have, there is no way you can feel good about it.