YesIWILL wrote:

-When I think of her, or the past with us, or anything about her, I get anxious and sad. Maybe it's because she's out of my life right now?

Simple reason. It's not because she is out of your life, but because you are focused on her being out of your life. Abe talk about the two ends of the stick and you are focused on the absence/lack end of the stick that every subject has. That's what your feelings try to tell you here and it's an valuable information. You feel bad all the time, because you go in the direction you don't want to go all the time. Emotional pain isn't different at all from physical pain. If you would run against a wall, how often would you do it? Probably just once. Then you feel that it hurts and you don't do it again, because you interpret the hurt as a signal that it isn't such a good idea to run against a wall. It's the same with emotional pain. It tells you "stop thinking the thing you are thinking". It's not there to make you suffer, it's there to show you the way. It's there so that you can say "Oh, that doesn't feel good. I think a different thought that feels better". But you don't see the signal as what it is and you run against the wall again and again. It hurts more and more every time you are doing it, but you think that the wall is the problem and want it to go away. It won't go away. Just stop running against it.

YesIWILL wrote:

-With everything else, I believe that I can manifest things and that LoA works. But when it comes to her, I don't believe it. I don't believe she'll be back. (Maybe it's because of what the Pyshcic told me...?)

You haven't believed it before any psychic told you anything. I need to quote Abe again here: A belief is just a thought you keep thinking. I don't know how often I read "This is hopeless" from you in the past year. I think it's safe to assume that you thought it even more than you said it to us. So that is the thought you have practiced and LoA brings you more thoughts like that. It's not so surprising that you believe that you can't get her back. You have a lot of momentum going on.

YesIWILL wrote:

SO I'm stuck in a place where I HAVE to get her back, if that makes sense.

I am sure you have heard a thousand times that we can't have something we think we need. You can obviously survive without her. Why do you think you need her back? (Serious question)

YesIWILL wrote:

I'm stuck in a bad place.

Maybe you want to soothe that story a bit? It's not serving you.

YesIWILL wrote:

I mean I've done and said the most amazing, sweet things, and anyone would be lucky to have a guy like me.

You can't compensate your vibration with all action in the world. You don't give her the chance to react in any other way to it than she did. You have to work on your vibration first. Else nothing will ever change.

YesIWILL wrote:

The only reason I can think that she wouldn't reply to things so heartfelt and after seeing how hard things are for me after she left, is that she's seeing someone else.

Sorry, but that is BS. I got abject messages from exes to which I never replied without having a new guy. Again, it's about your vibration.

YesIWILL wrote:

I can't visualize and stay hopeful, if thoughts of her are just keeping me sad.

In your case, visualising is counterproductive anyway. You are sad, so you are focused on the lack. By visualising, you invest time and energy in attracting even more lack. The only thing that could help you is that you make an effort to feel better and choose different thoughts. If you can't think happy thoughts about her, think about something else. You have to change your vibrational setpoint, else you won't ever come out of this.

Definitely agree, I love sanshis posts so much. You sound like Abraham herself. Reading that was so uplifting to me. Abe says often, "you can't get there from there." You appear very upset and sad. But what you wish to attract, which would of course be a loving, happy thing, you are not on the vibration of! You must feel good, to attract good in your life. Just know that if there's a will, there's always a way, focus on your happiness and everything will fall into place.

Last edited by Thelawoflove (4/15/2017 7:21 am)

If you keep texting her saying you are hurting and miss her after all this time I wonder if she doesn't know how to reply?

Lovely 80saeaak how you said about your visualisations it gave me some different ideas. Thanks.

Hey man YesIWill,
I already said on your "i had a dream" post.

Just do it for a week.
Then go ahead with it.
Start NC.
Stop seeking her everywhere.

You can see you always up & down.
Till now nothing happened.
Why don't you try opposite.
Which i wrote on that post.

Really really only you can get over from your problem.
Don't expect from her anything because you are not ready for yourself.

You know when i was in worry i reminded myself hey hey by this she will go further away!! & Then i Always went seek success story or any LOA video & changed ​my thinking.
And by doing this over & over i changed myself ☺.

If you are waiting with worries that she will come & say "im sorry i love you"
Then
You already know how long your time passed by this waiting.
Because of you LoA brought more waiting.

Take care.
God blesses.
Sending you Love & lights.