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Hey guys I just had the first conversation with my ex since 3 months. She contacted me yesterday.Β
Our conversation was great, we laughed a lot. She asked me, if I had something with other women and I said no, because I really had no contact to other women. She then said, you know you can if you want. That was the first strange thing. Do you think that She tested me if she still has power over me?Β
Now comes The part which made me feel a bit sad . At the end of Our conversation I told her, that we could speak on monday again if she wants. She said "yes if I do not forget it" she Said it in a not really interested way. I told her, well then remember it. She then said, "but I don't have to right?"Β
I tried to stay calm and said again only if she wants.Β
My question now is, is she really not that interested? Is she in resistance? Β Or is this kind of testing me? Please help me with your opinions. I do visualize us together everyday and send her unconditional love, but the end of Our conversation somehow conved the feeling, that it did not really influence her so far.Β
With kind regardsΒ
Robin
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I know it's not the easiest, but breath in, breath out. Know that all is well, and let it go. It will work out perfectly. When you stop worrying about the why's and how's and ifs and blah blah, the universe WILL and MUST perfect the situation to the way you want it to go. It's guaranteed. You just need to feel good. Don't worry and trust the universe. Look how far you've come! The universe brought you two together!! It will work everything out. Lots of happiness and wellness and love to you!!
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Thank you very much for your kind words they moved me
So I better ignor the things which I mentioned which I did not like, because what you ignor will disappear right?
I better ignor this part of reality?
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I agree! Letting go is the hardest part!
And my honest opinion is that you pare so close!!!
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Jovana, Sorry Iam no native speaker, What do you mean with "you pare so close"? :-)
Close to what?
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Rob wrote:
Thank you very much for your kind words they moved me
So I better ignor the things which I mentioned which I did not like, because what you ignor will disappear right?
I better ignor this part of reality?
Exactly!! If you don't focus upon that, it can NOT exist. Isn't that amazing?! I've always found that so wonderful, how powerful our minds are. Just focus on feeling good and doing things that make you feel good and everything will be just fine
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That p is typing mistake :-D
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Thank you guys for your uplifting words. I really appreciate that.
So in case she forget it that we talk to each other on mondΓ€nen, should I write her or not? I am not needy or desperate and she should not get this impression. Is it right to not Call then?
Last edited by Rob (4/14/2017 6:48 am)
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"There's no reason to make a plan b because it distracts from plan a." One of my favorite quotes by will smith. Don't worry. It will all work out, don't worry about the ifs or buts! I would personally let it go, and do things that make you feel good and let the universe work it out, if you do that, they WILL contact you! When you're feeling good, you're in the receptive mode for everything you desire and it will therefor come, it must, it is absolute.