I think it helps too. Whenever you aren't specific, I think it frees up the desperation you may have.

Sanshi wrote:

Leli wrote:

We are creators of our life, that is true. But we create experiences, which could be createt in past life but they materialized in this life. Why? Because there is something what is called divine timing. Universe delivery you what you want when you are prepared. The timing is prfect. Before it will test you, again and again and again until, you don't show that you growth. How is this connected with ex or specific person? You can wish and do everything to get that person, but if you two are not ready or you have to get experience that will allow you to grow up and meet again, you will have this experience, before you meet him or her again. 

I am with you in most of the parts you said including not focusing too much on a specific person, but I have to strongly disagree with that whole part. I don't believe in things manifesting from other life times. That would mean that we don't really have control. But we can always adjust our vibration, and just because we don't understand where something is coming from, it doesn't mean that we haven't included it in our vibration before. I also don't believe in divine timing. It's about alignment. Maybe you talk about the same thing, when you say that we have to be prepared. We have to stop resisting the thing we want and the moment we stop doing that and our vibration matches it, it comes to us. The only reason for the time gap is that our vibration isn't where it needs to be in order to manifest the thing we want instantly. There is no power outside of us that defines a point in time where the thing is allowed to pop up.
Another thing that I disagree with is that "you both have to be ready". What the other person does doesn't matter. It's about your own vibration and that's it.

Let's go step by step.
First we had a lot of past life, and in every life we had something to learn. (Yeah i know, that Abraham said, that life is not school and that everything is just fun game, but it is much more). If we don't learn we need to have same experience with same souls. I proved that in my situation and others. Do you think that if you promise something to somebody that this promes is erased by death. No, it is still there and must be fullfil or you must erase it. So here is first reason that we bring something from past life. 
Second divine timing exist, it is not aligment, bc aligment is to be on the same vibration as your wish or reality where your wish is fullfill.  Divine timing is time which universe need to change everything to get you your wish, but as you must be in aligment, same is for other person. All circumstances will be made just to put this person in aligment. Why do you think that something pops up in seconds something need few months or years? Aligment? No, if it is aligment that why Neville who was master of LOA need few months to create something?

I understand your theory, i tought same when i study only LOA, but when you go higer, then you see what it is and how everything works.
 

Okay, I wrote a long response and now it's gone and that's probably better.

Just one thing: I always follow my resonance and what I wrote resonates with me, so it's my truth. I just wanted to give people the possibility to choose what feels better to them.
I really would like to comment the "higher level" thing, but I decided to choose feeling good instead of being right.

And Neville was just a human being like everyone here. He had doubts, he had reality in his face. He couldn't do any vibrational magic jumps. It's never a good idea to look at other people, because you don't know their thoughts and feelings. And It's always easier to tell other people how they should do it than to do it oneself.

Sanshi wrote:

Okay, I wrote a long response and now it's gone and that's probably better.

Just one thing: I always follow my resonance and what I wrote resonates with me, so it's my truth. I just wanted to give people the possibility to choose what feels better to them.
I really would like to comment the "higher level" thing, but I decided to choose feeling good instead of being right.

And Neville was just a human being like everyone here. He had doubts, he had reality in his face. He couldn't do any vibrational magic jumps. It's never a good idea to look at other people, because you don't know their thoughts and feelings. And It's always easier to tell other people how they should do it than to do it oneself.

I would like to read your opinion about higher level. But anyway, let's focus only on LOA. At the end this is LOA forum. And LOA teach us to belive in what we want to be true.